Marty said:
1. The circular drumhead can vibrate in mixed modes with cominations of different frequencies. So why can't the hydrogen atom vibrate in mixed modes with different combinations of energy?
It can, under the right circumstances. For example, during a transition from one energy eigenstate to another, the atom is briefly in a superposition (linear combination) of the two states:
[tex]\psi = a(t) \psi_1 + b(t) \psi_2[/tex]
As the transition proceeds, a(t) decreases from 1 to 0 and b(t) increases from 0 to 1.
Also, some people study "Rydberg atoms" which are hydrogen (or other) atoms in highly-excited states, with large values of n, and energies just below zero (i.e. almost ionized). If I remember correctly, they actually produce states that are superpositions of energy eigenstates with close-together values of n, to form a localized wave-packet that travels around the nucleus in a classical-like orbit. In other words, they're working in the boundary zone between "quantum-like" behavior and "classical-like" behavior.
2. The modes of the circular drum can be excited to any desired amplitude. Why not the modes of the hydrogen atom?
The amplitude of the QM wave function is fixed by the requirement that the total probability of the electron being found
somewhere equals 1.
The
absolute amplitude of the quantum wave function (taken as a whole) actually doesn't have any physical significance. It can be anything, or can be left unspecified. It's merely a convenience to "normalize" it so the integral of [itex]\psi^*\psi[/itex] over all space equals 1. What really matters are the
relative values of [itex]\psi^*\psi[/itex] at different locations, because that determines the relative probabilities of the particle being at those locations (e.g. twice as likely to be at point 1 as at point 2).