Well, thanks for pointing all this out, seems that there´s much more than I can chew. I´m just often not confortable with all that "trust me I´m a scientist" thing, (I´m sure you know the feeling).
I thought the spin didn´t affected the overall shape, that it only meant the particle needed to made 2 cycles to come to it´s original state (being half of the time in that 0.5 dimension you talked about), and since there are 2 electrons in each orbit you´d have the same overal orbital shape in our 3D space, since in most cases there´s at least one electron existing in this plane.
Even if you were to have ten dimensions I don´t really understand why this should be a problem since you could calculate every dimension and only render the ones that exist in the 3D world, you just need the xyz coordinates.
You say the orbitals are different in moelcules and I was expecting that since the interaction is different if the electron is being shared. I have seen how hybridization distrot things, so, I could imagine that this shearing could generate an effect. What I guess I didn´t see coming was that they´re not physical wave functions. I don´t get it very well (what type of wave functions are they? can´t waves always be translated in geometrical space?)
Well, as said, I don´t like to be taken away of things just because I wouldn´t understand them, but ok, I guess I don´t have much of an option other than to keep studying this subject. Thanks for taking the time to explain why it´s so difficult. Still I´d like to ask one question. First let me say that I´m not that worry at the moment with wether if the viewer or observer can interpret what she/he is seeing. My question is if it is impossible to do or if it´s just something out of the reach of current computation.
I also would like to say that I just find it pitiful that after almost a century of quantum physics still the only representation availabale is one ball per atom.
I have tried to come up with periodic tables with suborbitals as the ones previously mentioned, and they´re much more clear, you can understand better for example why elements with D orbitals are good conductors and things like that. It´s quite a pitty that the visual representation can´t advance any further.