Basically, it is just an equation of the form am + b = 0. Do you know how to solve these? For example, if I say:
3m + 2 = 0
or
8m - 4 = 0
then you say: m = ... ?
Alternatively, you may have seen it in the form am = b, for example:
3m = -2
or
8m = 4.
The trick here is to rewrite a complicated equation like you have, into this form. The recipe is: first open up the brackets, for example: 3(2m + 4) = 3*2m + 3*4 = 6m + 12. In your example this is somewhat tricky, because you have all sorts of minus signs floating around which you should keep good track of (remember: positive times positive = negative times negative = positive, while negative times positive = positive times negative = negative).
Once you did that, you get an equation like 3m + 4 = 8m - 9. You can bring this in the form you want by what I call the balance method: adding and subtracting on both sides of the equal sign. For this example (there are many many ways to do it)
3m + 4 = 8m - 9 --- first add 9 on both sides
3m + 4 + 9 = 8m - 9 + 9 --- the nines on the right hand side cancel
3m + 13 = 8m --- now subtract 3m on both sides
3m + 13 - 3m = 8m - 3m --- simplify: 3m on the left hand side cancels
13 = (8-3)m --- so
5m = 13
You can solve this as m = 13/5. Or, if you want, you can again subtract 13 from both sides and write it as
5m - 13 = 0.
As you are see there are multiple steps involved. Since I don't really know where your problem with this exercise is, I will leave it to you now. Please give it a try and post your results here, so we can see where exactly you get stuck.