name123 said:
I am thinking of Gravity as the measured influence of "mass" on gravitation.
In other words, you are thinking of gravity as the measured influence of mass on gravity? That doesn't even make sense.
In GR, the best way to think of "gravity" is as spacetime curvature. That is the "gravity" that does not depend on your choice of coordinates, and that appears in the laws of physics.
name123 said:
What is the theory behind why the Earth's surface, or a wall, or a table, pushes up more in some places than others?
General relativity, whose laws--the Einstein Field Equation--are based on spacetime curvature and stress-energy (which is how what you ordinarily think of as "mass", i.e., the source of "gravity", appears). You solve the EFE under particular conditions that you are interested in, and that tells you the geometry of spacetime. Then you look at different possible worldlines in that spacetime geometry, and the laws tell you what proper acceleration (how much "pushing up") will be experienced by an object following that worldline.
name123 said:
change in motion requires no force?
"Change in motion" depends on your choice of coordinates. So it can't appear in the laws of physics.
name123 said:
Does not curvature perpetuate at the speed of light
Changes in curvature propagate at the speed of light. But for a gravitating body like the Earth, the spacetime curvature is, to a very good approximation, static, i.e., unchanging, so there's nothing to propagate.
name123 said:
does it not have an effect?
Yes, spacetime curvature has an effect. See above.
name123 said:
if you have two possible sources of an effect (the wall or the winch)
I don't understand. How is the person in your scenario killed? I thought it was the rope attached to the winch breaking their neck. Is it the winch pulling them through the wall and killing them by contact with the wall?
Assuming the latter is the case, I still don't see the point. The person wouldn't have been pulled through the wall if the winch hadn't been turned on. So whoever turned the winch on is responsible for their death. The fact that a wall made of something less sturdy wouldn't have killed them is irrelevant. And this whole scenario seems to me like a quibble; we're not talking about legalistic reasoning, we're talking about physics.
name123 said:
Think of scenarios where the winch is constant, but the normal force of the wall is different. Like a man being pulled through a paper wall which breaks. The winch force is the same before and after, but the normal force (of the wall) changes to zero after
If the winch isn't turned on, the force of the wall on the person is zero regardless of what the wall is made of. So the causal factor that varies the force is the winch. But this whole argument is still, as I said above, a quibble.