A general rule of thumb is that if you can define an operation without mentioning a particular coordinate system, then it is a coordinate-free definition, and linear operations with coordinate-free definitions are (almost?) always tensors. So a way to show that [itex]T[/itex] is a tensor is to show:
- There is a coordinate-free way to define [itex]T(U,V)[/itex]
- [itex]T(U,V)[/itex] is linear in both [itex]U[/itex] and [itex]V[/itex]
The coordinate-free definition of [itex]T(U,V)[/itex] is this:
[itex]T(U,V) = \nabla_U V - \nabla_V U - [U,V][/itex]
where [itex]\nabla_U[/itex] means the covariant derivative, or directional derivative along [itex]U[/itex], and where [itex][U,V][/itex] is the vector field defined by its action on a scalar field:
[itex]\nabla_{[U,V]} \phi \equiv \nabla_U (\nabla_V \phi) - \nabla_V (\nabla_U \phi)[/itex]
So [itex]T(U,V)[/itex] has a coordinate-free definition. Now, you have to show that it is linear in [itex]U[/itex] and [itex]V[/itex]. Since [itex]T(U,V) = -T(V,U)[/itex], it's enough to show that [itex]T(U,V)[/itex] is linear in [itex]U[/itex]. So let [itex]\bar{U} \equiv \phi U + W[/itex], where [itex]\phi[/itex] is a scalar field, and [itex]W[/itex] is a vector field. Then we need to show that [itex]T(\bar{U}, V) = \phi T(U,V) + T(W,V)[/itex]
[itex]T(\bar{U},V) = \nabla_{\bar{U}} V - \nabla_V \bar{U} - [\bar{U},V][/itex]
Using properties of covariant derivatives, we have:
[itex]\nabla_{(\phi U + W)} V = \phi \nabla_U V + \nabla_W V[/itex]
[itex]\nabla_V (\phi U + W) = (\nabla_V \phi) U + \phi (\nabla_V U) + \nabla_V W[/itex]
[itex][\phi U + W, V] = \phi [U,V] - (\nabla_V \phi) U + [W,V][/itex]
So we have:
[itex]T(\bar{U},V) = \phi \nabla_U V + \nabla_W V - (\nabla_V \phi) U - \phi (\nabla_V U) - \nabla_V W - \phi [U,V] + (\nabla_V \phi) U - [W,V][/itex]
The two occurrences of [itex]\nabla_V \phi[/itex] cancel out, giving:
[itex]T(\bar{U},V) = \phi \nabla_U V + \nabla_W V + \phi (\nabla_V U) - \nabla_V W - \phi [U,V] - [W,V][/itex]
[itex]= \phi (\nabla_U V - \nabla_V U - [U,V]) + \nabla_W V - \nabla_V W - [W,V][/itex]
[itex]= \phi T(U,V) + T(W,V)[/itex]