The problem about one's mindset.
I'd add that concerning the thought that "the money has to come from somewhere," no, it does not, but only if you cut spending to below revenue levels.
As it is with the "tyranny of the urgent," there's the "tyranny of the need" aka "tyranny of the must have."
Driven, somewhat obsessive over-controllers tend to be the kind of successful people who go into politics. The problem is, their approach is "we need this so how are we going to pay for it?" when a better approach might be "here's our budget, so let's spend what we have in a wise manner."
The fallacy is that they think they
actually need something when often they only
think they need it.
Corporations start with the basic goal of making money, and divide that into both short and long-term goals based on their core competencies and market opportunities. Successful corporations will remain within budget, borrowing money only if absolutely necessary, but with the goal of paying it off soon. Very successful companies like Apple don't borrow funds at all. They don't fall into the trap of thinking they "have" to borrow in order to make money. Instead, they're patient, avoiding tyrannies of the urgent and must-haves, and instead say, "here's what we have coming in from our revenue. Let's spend what we do have, wisely."
Case in point: When I retired, I thought I "had" to have a two-bedroom apartment. I'd use the second bedroom as the office and a guest room. Instead, I bit the bullet and settled for a decent-sized one-bedroom apartment. I have a guest bed and dresser in the dining room, and guests are happy with that! Beats sleeping on the couch.
My point is that I had to find a place that was within my budget. Had I gone for the two bedroom, I'd be spending $200 more a month for something I
thought I needed, but did not
actually need.
Our government is just about the most wasteful government on planet Earth! People at all levels from the fed to the private citizen have convinced themselves that something is needed when it's really not needed. It's simply wanted.
Heck, I want to live here!
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But I'm wise enough to know that it's a desire, not a need. I thought I needed a two-BR apt, but I was wrong. A 1-BR apt suits my needs very well, and that extra $200 a month goes a long way towards meeting other, genuine needs.
I'd still like to build my own home some day, but if I do, it'll only be because doing so is both affordable and would make better long-term financial sense than staying here in an apartment. My apartment has a lot of amenities that would drive up the price of a home considerably, including a nice pool, exercise room, and jacuzzi.