You almost got there with this post but not quite. Look at #40 by
@haruspex and write the right hand side of the equation as a vector. This means find expressions for ##r_x## and ##r_y## such that ##\vec r=r_x~\hat i+r_y~\hat j.## Note that once you choose the coordinate system, the Cartesian axes are fixed and so are the unit vectors ##\hat i~## and ##\hat j~##. Therefore in general when vector ##\vec r## changes, only ##r_x## and ##r_y## change and not the unit vectors. The question before you then is "how should ##r_x## and ##r_y## change
in particular so that the direction of ##\vec r## remains constant?" You can find an analytical expression describing that either in terms of ##r_x## and ##r_y## or in terms of ##\theta## and ##r##, whichever you think is easier.
What I suggest is not really different from the suggestion by
@Delta2 in #43 which implies writing ##\hat r~## in terms of Cartesian unit vectors. The point is that the direction of ##\hat r## depends on ##\theta## so if you want to express a fixed direction analytically, you need to express it in terms of fixed (Cartesian) unit vectors.