I think the original poster's questions have not been answered; these are the questions I will answer and I hope I have interpreted correctly:
1) How can I verify the bjt voltage gain from
1) base to emitter
2) base to collector
3) emitter to collector
2) If I have ##\frac{V_c}{V_b}## and ##\frac{V_e}{V_b}## how come ##\frac{V_c}{V_b}\times \frac{V_b}{V_e} \neq \frac{V_c}{V_e} ##
In the original figure there are many voltage sources with only labels so below I have attached the same figure with voltage sources added.
At this point it's nice to notice two things:
1) there are 2 total voltage sources and none are at the base, emitter or collector. So, finding the "voltage gain from ##a## to ##b##" will mean that I must turn off all sources that I am not interested in and add a voltage source at ##a## and solve for the voltage at ##b##.
2) I am looking for the linearized transfer, so while there are many ways to model a BJT; the simplest for our case is to say: ##I_{ce}=g_m(V_b-V_e)##
So, lets answer the questions:
1. Solving the voltage gain from the base to emitter with all sources off I add a voltage source at ##V_b## which becomes:
##V_e=R_eg_m(V_b-V_e)##
Solving for ##V_e## I get:
##\left.\frac{V_e}{V_b}\right|_{V_{in}=0,V_{s}=0}=\frac{R_eg_m}{1+R_eg_m}##
Here I directly state ##V_{in}## and ##V_s## must be off.
This result can be further simplified by claiming ##R_eg_m\ggg 1## then I have your result ##\left.\frac{V_e}{V_b}\right|_{V_{in}=0,V_s=0} \approx 1 ##
2. Solving the voltage gain from the base to collecter becomes:
##V_c=I_cR_c=(-g_m(V_b-V_e))R_c##
I know ##V_e## in terms of ##V_b## from above so:
##V_c=(-g_m(V_b-V_e))R_c=(-g_m(1-\frac{R_eg_m}{1+R_eg_m}))R_cV_b##
##\left.\frac{V_c}{V_b}\right|_{V_{in}=0,V_s=0}=\frac{-g_mR_c}{1+R_eg_m}##
3. Solving the Voltage gain from the emitter to the collecter I have to place a voltage source at the emitter and get the following:
##V_c=R_cI_c=R_c(-g_m(V_b-V_e))##
Notice that the dependent current source depends on V_b so it must be a known quantity, I set it to zero ##V_b=0## so I get:
##\left.\frac{V_c}{V_e}\right|_{V_{in}=0,V_s=0,V_b=0}=R_cg_m##
Finally, the last question: to find the emitter to collector gain I have to have a known base voltage; the base to emitter and base to collector transfers assume the base voltage can be anything, where the emitter to collector assumes that it must be constant, so strictly speaking they are not the same, ie:
##\left.\frac{V_c}{V_e}\right|_{V_{in}=0,V_s=0} \neq \left.\frac{V_c}{V_e}\right|_{V_{in}=0,V_s=0,V_b=0}##