Yes! I agree. I don't disagree with the other ideas, but I think that this idea is at the heart of his SR as presented in the 1905 paper. So, how do we use this idea for better understanding of his analysis? His definition of time seems to be expressed as ' the pointing of the hand on my watch when the train arrives'. Might that be expressed as ' the time of the moving frame is given by the reading on the moving clock when the light ray arrives at x',y',z'? But, if the clocks of both frames are ticking at the same rate, as described by Feynman in 'Six not-so-easy Pieces, then how do they know what they should do?
But I'm just rambling here, trying to figure out how to use this new idea to understand SR. Can anyone point the way?
JM