okay, now i really think I am there,(almost) could you just tell me where I am going wrong,
here are my workings
http://picasaweb.google.com/devanlevin/DropBox?authkey=Gv1sRgCL_4l4PpvP_YsQE#5312348851145303922
i took a spherical surface with a radius of [tex]\frac{\sqrt{5}}{2}[/tex]R which is flat on one side(the disk -green in my diagram) and said, as you advised, that since there is no internal charge, all the ingoing flux, (through the disk) is equal to the outgoing flux( through the spherical part)
now the area of the shere is 4[tex]\Pi[/tex]rh which comes to
[tex]\frac{5-\sqrt{5}}{2}[/tex][tex]\Pi[/tex]R2
[tex]\Phi[/tex]=E*A
and i get
[tex]\Phi[/tex]=[tex]\frac{q}{\epsilon}[/tex]*[tex]\frac{5-\sqrt{5}}{10}[/tex]
the answer in my book is
[tex]\frac{q}{4\epsilon}[/tex]*[tex]\frac{\sqrt{5}-1}{\sqrt{5}}[/tex]
my answer is half of the books, where am i going wrong??