Your post #11 looks more like philosophy to me than what
@phinds is asking.
For a better response to what you were responding to in post #11, see post #14 by
@Nugatory or below.QM doesn't say that objects don't exist when they are not being "looked at" (a better term would be "interacted with", which is much more general--see further comments on decoherence below). Quantum systems always exist, although they don't always behave the way our classical intuitions would expect.
For the moon, however, even the latter caution doesn't really apply. The moon is not a simple quantum system; it is composed of something like ##10^{50}## atoms, and it is constantly being decohered by interactions both with its environment (photons from the rest of the universe are always interacting wtih it) and within itself (as those ##10^{50}## atoms are constantly interacting with each other). So non-classical quantum effects are negligible for the moon.