anthonych414 said:
I learn better when I'm alone and I don't absorb a lot in class but I'm good at taking notes.
MIT is not a good school for loners. The way that people learn physics there is that the instructor gives you some incredibly difficult problem sets. The problems are so difficult, that there is absolutely no way that you can learn the material on your own, so ends up happening is that people form study groups that work until 3-4 a.m. figuring out the problem sets. It's those study groups in which you really learn physics. Most of the learning at MIT ends up being student-student learning, and while you are trying to solve the problem set that is due tomorrow morning, you learn a whole bunch of other skills.
What happens is that the program is really, really tough, but part of what makes it nice and fun is you get to work with people that also think that tough physics is nice and fun. One then that made the experience nice for me is that in high school, people thought I was a little weird for being a "science geek", but at MIT I found myself in a place full of "science geeks" There are so many different types of people at MIT that it's not hard to find a group of people that you fit in with, but you do need to find some group, since I don't think that anyone can get through MIT by themselves.
People that try to get through the program by themselves inevitably end up in a lot of trouble. What will happen while at MIT is that you think to yourself "I'm stupid." But what happens if you are in a good situation, is that you end up talking with your friends, you figure out that they are feeling the same way, "you're stupid" "I'm stupid" "all the teachers are stupid" "MIT is stupid" and then you have fun talking about how bad MIT is, and in end you have fun bashing the institute at 3 a.m. while you are trying to figure out the problem set that is due tomorrow. You figure out that you have absolutely no clue how to solve problem 3), but neither do any of your friends so you all just sit down and try to work everything through, and then you stagger to the turn in box, put in the problem set, and then stagger off to get some sleep.
What incredible fun it was!
What makes MIT a bad place, even a dangerous place, for loners, is that if you end up just sitting in your dorm room thinking about how stupid you are, and you aren't talking to anyone else about that, it can very quickly get into a very bad downward spiral. You think you are stupid because you can't do the problem sets, feeling awful makes you less able to do the problem sets, you feel ever more stupid, etc. etc. Once you get this downward spiral it is very, very dangerous (i.e. people have died from this).