Galteeth
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An anecdote that happened to me last week. I'll try very hard to keep this SFW. I was outside my venue on a cold night. No one was around, and an woman in her sixties who appeared homeless asked if she could come inside for a moment to warn up. My spider sense told me this was probably a bad idea, but I let her come down.
It soon became clear that her purpose was to try and have sex. I told her several times that I had a girlfriend, (which actually wasn't true) but she was incredibly persistent, to the point of, um, undressing and making vulgar displays (which, trust me, did NOTHING to influence me towards her advances).
After many, many refusals, and having to literally run away from her, she eventually left. The incident made me reflect on my thoughts regarding age. She had the appearance of a homeless crack addict, although I had to admit, the age difference was probably a factor in my disgust. I thought about it, and realized that while I wouldn't write off someone in their sixties automatically, it would probably be a hurdle for my attraction (I am 26.)
At the risk of stating something politically incorrect, I think it generally seems that women "peak" earlier in physical attractiveness then men do. I know girls my age who consider older men to be within their age range (not sixty, but say, forties) and although I know guys who are willing to be with older women, it is more of a novelty then a serious consideration.
I suppose this has some biological basis, as it stands to reason that men would be less attracted to women who were post-menopausal, whereas men remain fertile, and from an evolutionary standpoint, a man who has survived longer is potentially more fit.
I must admit, the experience was a bit of an eye opener, as it has left me wondering whether it will be difficult to be attracted to women my own age as i get much older.
It soon became clear that her purpose was to try and have sex. I told her several times that I had a girlfriend, (which actually wasn't true) but she was incredibly persistent, to the point of, um, undressing and making vulgar displays (which, trust me, did NOTHING to influence me towards her advances).
After many, many refusals, and having to literally run away from her, she eventually left. The incident made me reflect on my thoughts regarding age. She had the appearance of a homeless crack addict, although I had to admit, the age difference was probably a factor in my disgust. I thought about it, and realized that while I wouldn't write off someone in their sixties automatically, it would probably be a hurdle for my attraction (I am 26.)
At the risk of stating something politically incorrect, I think it generally seems that women "peak" earlier in physical attractiveness then men do. I know girls my age who consider older men to be within their age range (not sixty, but say, forties) and although I know guys who are willing to be with older women, it is more of a novelty then a serious consideration.
I suppose this has some biological basis, as it stands to reason that men would be less attracted to women who were post-menopausal, whereas men remain fertile, and from an evolutionary standpoint, a man who has survived longer is potentially more fit.
I must admit, the experience was a bit of an eye opener, as it has left me wondering whether it will be difficult to be attracted to women my own age as i get much older.