First of all, only plane waves focused using a lens of infinite aperture can produce exactly a point of zero dimension in the focal plane, clearly such arrangement is not possible. Second, laser light is hardly exactly a plane wave. It always has certain curve in its phase front and moreover the field distribution is obviously not uniform across any perpendicular plane to the propagation direction. In most practical situations, a laser light is in fact slightly diverging. These two reasons limit why laser light cannot be focused lower than its wavelength. The mathematical reasoning can be understood from the fact that the far-field field distribution is related by Fourier transform with the field at the input plane.