No one is questioning relativity per se. Experiments support it.
Yes, experiments support it, but I disagree that relativity is not being questioned, at least unconsciously.
(And as a point worth mentioning, the equations of relativity are time symmetric anyway. So that could potentially explain the appearance of quantum nonlocality, although that is speculation at this time.)
But qft is a strictly local theory. I have an entire textbook devoted to that very thing, "Local Quantum Physics: Fields, particles, Algebras," Rudoplf Haag.
But there seems to be a gray area when it comes to entangled systems: they have spatial extent but act as if that extent doesn't constrain the system as might be otherwise expected.
And in the typical Bell type experiment, the detectors are separated from the source by null intervals, since obviously, photons live on the light cone. So between the source and each detector, the distance is zero, regardless of the spatial separation between the detectors. That seems to be a missed point.
And on the quantum side: ordering of the following makes no discernible difference to the outcome in any reference frame:
a. Pair A and B entangled.
b. A measured.
c. B measured.
I really have no idea what you are trying to say here.