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I'm just wondering does age really matter or is love the only that matters? :shy:
How so? I'm trying to think of something solid and useful I can always tell about someone from knowing their age and I can't think of anything. Male, 57, could be anyone from me, to a wall street executive, to a homeless alcoholic.Drakkith said:Age isn't simply a number. It's a good way to judge someone before you get to know them.
DaveC426913 said:Age difference isn't a showstopper, but it raises the likelihood that their paths through life will be more incompatible than average.
Lancelot59 said:I guess it just might be me getting old...
George Jones said:Yes, as one gets older, an absolute age gap gets smaller as a percentage.
For example, consider an absolute gap of 7 years. If the ages are 20 and 27, the 27-year-old is 35% older. Five years later, the age difference is 28%.
George Jones said:Yes, as one gets older, an absolute age gap gets smaller as a percentage.
For example, consider an absolute gap of 7 years. If the ages are 20 and 27, the 27-year-old is 35% older. Five years later, the age difference is 28%.
DaveC426913 said:Thus the basis of the age formula: x = 1/2y + 7.
14 = 14
16 = 15-17
18 = 16-22
20 = 17-26
24 = 19-34
30 = 22-46
etc.
256bits said:So what's that?
What age categories are possibly compatable for dating or a relationship?
I find that interesting.
I couldn't disagree more. There is no formula.DaveC426913 said:Inside the range is acceptable.
Outside the range is creepy.
Evo said:I couldn't disagree more. There is no formula.
Right, if you are 50 and date someone 65 is that unreasonable? The older you get, the less age matters.Lancelot59 said:Depending on your age...
15 years -5 years...gets a little off.
We should write an age dependant delta function so that the acceptable deviation varies with age as well.
Evo said:Right, if you are 50 and date someone 65 is that unreasonable? The older you get, the less age matters.
I would say that age differences really depend on many factors. At age 52 I was guessed to be 30 years old physically. Some people age better than others. Genetics, health, etc... all come into play for physical appearance. As for age difference other than physical looks, does anyone really take mental age into consideration?
As far as physical looks, I don't have facial wrinkles, I don't have "laugh or smile" wrinkles and I don't have "crows feet" around the eyes. Something people can get in their 20's.
If only there were some way ... some way of ... quantifying this concept!Evo said:Right, if you are 50 and date someone 65 is that unreasonable? The older you get, the less age matters.
Hercuflea said:+/- 15% of your age
arildno said:No one younger than 57 ought to date a centenarian.
DaveC426913 said:Thus the basis of the age formula: x = 1/2y + 7.
14 = 14
16 = 15-17
18 = 16-22
20 = 17-26
24 = 19-34
30 = 22-46
etc.
No, there is no specific age gap that is universally considered acceptable in a romantic relationship. Age differences can vary greatly and what may be acceptable for one couple may not be for another.
Yes, a large age gap can create challenges in a relationship such as differences in life experiences, perspectives, and goals. Communication and compromise are key in navigating these challenges.
Yes, it is not uncommon for people to be in successful relationships with significant age differences. As long as both partners are consenting adults and are happy in the relationship, age should not be a determining factor of success.
Some potential benefits of being in a relationship with an age difference may include learning from each other's different perspectives and experiences, and having a unique and diverse dynamic in the relationship.
Societal stigma around age differences in relationships can lead to judgment and discrimination from others, which can put strain on the couple. It's important for couples to focus on their own happiness and not let societal expectations affect their relationship.