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Loren Booda
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Describe your experience of "falling in love"
three months? that's horrible! Here's a question, don't be offended, do you sleep with someone right away? I've dated for three months before sleeping with someone, if you don't sleep with someone right away do you break up with them soon after you have sex? I only ask because I want to sleep with you. lol just kidding, I ask because there has to be a reason why you only last three months and in my opinion sex is a big part of a relationship-that's why I'm so damn good at it.Evo said:I've never been in love. I've been infatuated, had a few crushes, but nothing I'd call love.
I've met some great guys, funny, smart, nice, but I rarely have a relationship that lasts longer than three months. I just don't see the point in dragging out something that isn't right. I've even been married due to pressure to settle down and have a family, but it was horrible.
Oh well. At least I am not in a bad relationship.
I wouldn't say that I sleep with them right away, but within the three months. How can you wait three months?? No, I don't break up with them soon after sex. It's not the sex, it's usually an issue of compatabitly or maturity. I know what I want and need, unfortunately, most people don't. I would rather be alone than be miserable in a relationship where I had to compromise myself. Ok, except once I refused a second date with a wonderful guy because he was the worst kisser I had ever encountered. I almost drowned.tribdog said:three months? that's horrible! Here's a question, don't be offended, do you sleep with someone right away? I've dated for three months before sleeping with someone, if you don't sleep with someone right away do you break up with them soon after you have sex?
It's compatibility. heheh, hmmmm, well, I'll just have to believe you, won't I?tribdog said:I only ask because I want to sleep with you. lol just kidding, I ask because there has to be a reason why you only last three months and in my opinion sex is a big part of a relationship-that's why I'm so damn good at it.
Falling in love is a complex biological and psychological process that involves the release of hormones, such as dopamine and oxytocin, which create feelings of pleasure, attachment, and trust. It also involves the activation of certain brain regions, such as the reward and decision-making centers, which play a role in forming and maintaining romantic relationships.
When we fall in love, our brain experiences changes in its chemistry and structure. The release of hormones and activation of specific brain regions can lead to increased focus, motivation, and attachment to the person we are in love with. It can also impact our decision-making and emotional processing, making us more willing to take risks and overlook flaws in our partner.
While there are certainly factors that can influence our attraction to someone, such as shared interests and values, falling in love is largely a biological response. It is not something we consciously choose, but rather a natural and instinctual process that is influenced by our evolutionary history and genetics.
Some people may claim to have experienced love at first sight, but from a scientific perspective, it is unlikely. Falling in love involves getting to know someone on a deeper level and developing a strong emotional and physical connection. This cannot be achieved simply by looking at someone for the first time.
Being in love and loving someone are often used interchangeably, but there are some distinctions. Being in love typically refers to the intense emotions and attraction we feel towards someone in the early stages of a romantic relationship. Loving someone, on the other hand, is a deeper and more long-term emotion that involves caring for and wanting the best for that person. It is possible to be in love with someone without truly loving them, and vice versa.