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My little girl, who just turned five, asked if she could have her ears pierced. The answer was 'not for awhile', but that got me thinking, what is the appropriate age for her to get her ears pierced?
Chronos said:I would not even consider that a reasonable request before she is 8. I think it important to instill a sense of self importance before they enter school. It's hard enough to shield them from self indulgence after they enter school.
Talk to the daughter and discuss why.mesa said:My little girl, who just turned five, asked if she could have her ears pierced. The answer was 'not for awhile', but that got me thinking, what is the appropriate age for her to get her ears pierced?
When they're on their own and they're free to make their own decisions. I wouldn't entertain teenage shenanigans, which is what tongue piercing is.I think the more important question is what is the appropriate age for the youngins to get their tongues pierced? Is it 13? Or what?
George Jones said:My wife and I went through this a few years ago. My wife won. In south-asian culture, it is common for girls to get their ears pierced at a very young...
Evo said:I think I was 7 when I had my ears pierced. My mother was old fashioned and in her culture girls got their ears pierced around the time of their first communion. .
Evo said:I think I was 7 when I had my ears pierced. My mother was old fashioned and in her culture girls got their ears pierced around the time of their first communion. I still have my first earrings. I'm glad it was done at that age. It was done by our doctor, not some teenager at a mall costume jewelry store.
Astronuc said:I got my left ear pierced when I was 20. I had been contemplating it for a couple of years, and finally went and did it. My mom was distressed.
dlgoff said:When my daughter was talking about piercings, I would always bring up other body parts ... as I never found piercings attractive.
She complied with not getting any but got this instead.
http://imagizer.imageshack.us/a/img856/9641/pilsungtattoo.jpg
dlgoff said:When my daughter was talking about piercings, I would always bring up other body parts ... as I never found piercings attractive.
She complied with not getting any but got this instead.
Astronuc said:Talk to the daughter and discuss why.
It's perhaps a cultural/familial/personal decision. Some parents have their babies ears pierced, which I don't understand. Others allow children at about one's daughter's age.
I think it's important to discuss the why to assure that the daughter doesn't have issues with appearance. Otherwise, I agree with lisab and Monique.
I got my left ear pierced when I was 20. I had been contemplating it for a couple of years, and finally went and did it. My mom was distressed.
lisab said:Amazing how many artists leave it out, but Shakespeare supposedly had a pierced ear, too:
It's Korean for Certain Victory (Pil Sung). https://www.physicsforums.com/showpost.php?p=4332560&postcount=10DiracPool said:I tried to scan that image with my new smartphone and it's google translater, but it didn't work, dlgoff. What does that cypher say in the Queen's English?
DiracPool said:Sorry, but in my eye it brands you as an idiot
ChiralWaltz said:Once the body becomes a full canvas, I start questioning the reasoning behind it.
I can go for something subtle, such as the one dgloff daughter has behind her ear.
And not now?Astronuc said:At the time, I had long hair and a beard.
I did have short hair when I got my first job, and I did have management request that I keep my hair shorter at times, and the beard trimmed.dlgoff said:And not now?
Astronuc said:I had been considering getting an earring probably since high school, or even junior high.
At the time, I had long hair and a beard.
From the context, when I got my ear pierced during university.DiracPool said:You had long hair and a beard in Junior high?! Lol.
fluidistic said:Here in Argentina it's common to pierce the ears of female newborns.
DiracPool said:Personally, I would not be caught dead with a tattoo. Ostensibly, a tattoo is supposed to mark upon your "self" some inexuastible logic or sentiment.
Sorry, but in my eye it brands you as an idiot.
What life is about is about is change, it's about moving on, humility.
In my mind, tattooing some permanent statement on your body is really a shortsighted vision of what humanity can strive to be.
The appropriate age for a child to get their ears pierced is a common question among parents. While there is no set age limit, it is generally recommended to wait until the child is at least 6 months old to ensure their earlobes are fully developed and can handle the piercing process.
There are a few potential risks associated with getting a child's ears pierced at a young age. These include infection, allergic reactions to the piercing materials, and difficulty healing. It is important to carefully consider these risks before making a decision.
There is no definitive answer to this question, as every child is different. However, some signs that your child may be ready for ear piercing include expressing interest in getting their ears pierced, understanding the responsibilities of caring for the piercing, and being able to follow instructions for aftercare.
When selecting a piercing studio for your child, it is important to consider their safety and the cleanliness of the environment. Look for a studio that uses sterile equipment, follows proper hygiene practices, and has experienced and trained piercers. It is also a good idea to check for any reviews or recommendations from other parents.
Proper aftercare is crucial for ensuring your child's newly pierced ears heal properly and avoid infection. This includes cleaning the piercings twice a day with a saline solution or mild soap and water, avoiding touching the piercings with dirty hands, and avoiding swimming or other activities that may expose the piercings to bacteria. It is also important to follow any specific aftercare instructions provided by the piercing studio.