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yankle
I was wondering this questions since I guess me and my girlfriend brokeup a few months ago, we were together for about a year. In the beginning it was great (we were together all the time, made a lot of friend together) however when things got a bit more difficult for me with work and family I was getting frustrated easily and started pickup bad habits (smoking) and noticeably bad attitude and in turn she started talking/responding differently which eventually turned into a vicious cycle of negativity.
I have been analyzing what happened within me and what caused me to shut her out. I have sat in solitude for a while and determined why I was so rotten (for those I am trying to fix myself ig: communication, understanding), however for her I think it may have been the way she would talk to me, perhaps it was the tone that would set me off? Implied mistrust, or disapproval...
The times we have talked in confidence together I know that she has a kind and gentle heart and would be there for me if I needed as would I.
So my question is I was wondering if learning how to communicate can be *fixed* and if so, can a relationship work? (I have been reading "Men are from Mars women are from Venus" to gain some insight)
I have been analyzing what happened within me and what caused me to shut her out. I have sat in solitude for a while and determined why I was so rotten (for those I am trying to fix myself ig: communication, understanding), however for her I think it may have been the way she would talk to me, perhaps it was the tone that would set me off? Implied mistrust, or disapproval...
The times we have talked in confidence together I know that she has a kind and gentle heart and would be there for me if I needed as would I.
So my question is I was wondering if learning how to communicate can be *fixed* and if so, can a relationship work? (I have been reading "Men are from Mars women are from Venus" to gain some insight)