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shmoe
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Physics is Phun said:she just doesn't get the message when i stop talking to her.
Shutting off communication with no explanation never works out well. If you really can't handle contact with her for the next couple of weeks before school starts up, just tell her that it's too hard for you. If she's worth anything as a friend she should respect that and give you space until you've gotten over it. In any case, keep yourself busy to stop obsessing over her (you seemed to be keeping track of when she arrived at the party, was there no one else to talk to?).
About the "girls are evil' title- after my first girlfriend broke up with me I went through that phase. It didn't help that about the same time 4 of my friends had their girlfiends all break up with them in bad ways, lying cheating etc.. so we had many 'girls are evil' conversations while we wallowed in our collective misery. We got over it pretty quick though.
All you can really do is get over it and realize that your next girlfriend isn't the same person as your last one (it sounds like this would be best in your case), so don't be afraid to take some risks that leave you vulnerable. If you don't get over it, the next relationship you're in you may end up being the 'evil' one as you try desperately to not let yourself get hurt again and behave like a goober. Eventually opening yourself up to risks will be worth it, or at least it's probably more fun at the time.