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Shes really hot is it ok? I know its unethical for professors to pursue students but what if i pursue her? Anybody else have this problem?
TheStatutoryApe said:Assuming that she would actually reciprocate your lust she could lose her job. Do you think that is an acceptable risk?
EternityMech said:Shes really hot is it ok? I know its unethical for professors to pursue students but what if i pursue her? Anybody else have this problem?
Still no. If you want a professional (for her) relationship to be slanted by a personal relationship, you're setting yourself up for problems. The PhD process is going to take a while, and you'll be heavily reliant on her guidance. Do you want to guess what might happen if your personal relationship chills?EternityMech said:well she keeps touching my arm (i have big arms) so you i think so. she is my professor and i want to join the phd program under her. is that more ok phd student and professor?
Yes.I like Serena said:Oh please, do you really think she could lose her job over something like that?
Perhaps in high school, but not in college!
D H said:Yes.
A high school teacher will get fired and get put in jail. A college professor (assuming the student is of age) will only get fired.
I like Serena said:I kind of believe in romance.
I'd say to prepare for disappointment, but who's to say it can't be so?
Any bridge can be crossed when you get there (or not depending on how things turn out).
Assuming you are both adults (are you?), I believe anything goes.
Here's one, at a fairly prestigious, non-religious school. There are plenty of others.I like Serena said:Do you have a reference for that?
D H said:Here's one, at a fairly prestigious, non-religious school. There are plenty of others.
http://yalealumnimagazine.com/issues/2010_03/lv_sex015.html
That's exactly what I said earlier: "A college professor (assuming the student is of age) will only get fired."I like Serena said:All right, so it's not against the law, but is is against the policy of some faculties.
D H said:That's exactly what I said earlier: "A college professor (assuming the student is of age) will only get fired."
D H said:That's exactly what I said earlier: "A college professor (assuming the student is of age) will only get fired."
Please don't post things that you know nothing about. Apparently you didn't even bother googling the issue. Maybe in "your country" you are not aware of any issues, then state that. I only know of the US, has anyone asked the OP in which country he attends school? He might live in a country with very lax rules, he may not. The best advice is that it *may* be a problem, check with the student union, or something comparable.I like Serena said:All right.
Again, in practice this won't happen, unless things escalate...
What you are interpreting as special attention to you may well be nothing special at all. Does she do this with other people, male and female? Some people are "touchy-feely". Touchy-feely males touch people's shoulders or shake hands at the drop of a hat, touchy-feely females touch peoples arms or hands. These touchy-feely people, male and female, have no qualms about invading what you feel is your personal space. They are usually more outgoing than normal. Their touchy-feely nature is just a part of their personality.EternityMech said:well she keeps touching my arm (i have big arms) so you i think so.
Jimmy Snyder said:Most students sleep with their professors.
Or priests and altar-boys?Ivan Seeking said:So it isn't limited to sports and coaches?
turbo said:Or priests and altar-boys?
Yay priests!Ivan Seeking said:I can only say that I played football and was an altar boy, and no priest ever slapped me on the butt.
Unless the corporation fires the client (in which case sleeping with the former client would be a bad idea), corporations are not supposed to have former clients. Once a client, always a client. Till bankruptcy, death, or unfriendly buyout do you part. That sort of thing.Pengwuino said:It would be like a corporation saying that employees can't sleep with former clients.
I worked with a guy that got fired for making sexist remarks to a female client. The guy was clueless, he thought he was suave, women thought he was a pig.D H said:Unless the corporation fires the client (in which case sleeping with the former client would be a bad idea), corporations are not supposed to have former clients. Once a client, always a client. Till bankruptcy, death, or unfriendly buyout do you part. That sort of thing.
Surprising how often that happens.Evo said:I worked with a guy that got fired for making sexist remarks to a female client. The guy was clueless, he thought he was suave, women thought he was a pig.
Once again, with unparalleled insight, you've observed a core truth all others have missed.Jimmy Snyder said:Most students sleep with their professors.
zoobyshoe said:Once again, with unparalleled insight, you've observed a core truth all others have missed.
He has his own secret fluxions, his own secret method of calculating the slope of the line of drink spewing over giggles per unit time. We wouldn't understand them if he showed the to us.lisab said:I know...time and time again, how does he do it ?
Ditto.I'm so glad you post on this forum, Jimmy!
I steal. Here's a joke I heard long ago.lisab said:how does he do it?
Jimmy Snyder said:I steal. Here's a joke I heard long ago.
Father: Did you sleep with my daughter?
Boyfriend: No sir, not a wink.
The rest is just a matter of drawing the bullseye after the shaft has flown.