What is Love: Definition and 339 Discussions

Love encompasses a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states, from the most sublime virtue or good habit, the deepest interpersonal affection, to the simplest pleasure. An example of this range of meanings is that the love of a mother differs from the love of a spouse, which differs from the love of food. Most commonly, love refers to a feeling of strong attraction and emotional attachment.Love is considered to be both positive and negative, with its virtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection, as "the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another" and its vice representing human moral flaw, akin to vanity, selfishness, amour-propre, and egotism, as potentially leading people into a type of mania, obsessiveness or codependency. It may also describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one's self or animals. In its various forms, love acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts. Love has been postulated to be a function that keeps human beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of the species.Ancient Greek philosophers identified six forms of love: essentially, familial love (in Greek, Storge), friendly love or platonic love (Philia), romantic love (Eros), self-love (Philautia), guest love (Xenia) and divine love (Agape). Modern authors have distinguished further varieties of love: unrequited love, empty love, companionate love, consummate love, infatuated love, self-love, and courtly love. Numerous cultures have also distinguished Ren, Yuanfen, Mamihlapinatapai, Cafuné, Kama, Bhakti, Mettā, Ishq, Chesed, Amore, Charity, Saudade (and other variants or symbioses of these states), as culturally unique words, definitions, or expressions of love in regards to a specified "moments" currently lacking in the English language.Scientific research on emotion has increased significantly over the past two decades. The color wheel theory of love defines three primary, three secondary and nine tertiary love styles, describing them in terms of the traditional color wheel. The triangular theory of love suggests "intimacy, passion and commitment" are core components of love. Love has additional religious or spiritual meaning. This diversity of uses and meanings combined with the complexity of the feelings involved makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, compared to other emotional states.

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  1. E

    Love, Morality, and Wisdom: What Would You Do?

    so i was watching a movie. a guy who's engaged with a girl from his city meets a girl who just moved from another city to this one and these 2 people fall in love with each other. now the guy just doesn't know what to do. he's promised his girlfriend to marry her but he's desperately in love...
  2. mattmns

    Man finds love after 6 months of net dating

    or maybe not, anybody read this story? http://entertainment.tv.yahoo.com/news/wwn/20051209/113414040002.html :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
  3. Ivan Seeking

    Just another reason why I love the internet

    After lugging these things around for over twenty years now, I just got rid of about six hundred pounds of industrial manuals. Thanks to the internet they are no longer needed. I also realized that for the first time in my life, I can start to reduce the amount of shelf space dedicated to books...
  4. H

    Medical Why Do We Procrastinate?

    http://chronicle.com/temp/reprint.php?id=63klkx6drw34y6cqfktwkfd7c3ns9t6j
  5. Q

    NEED HELP GUYS Love you folks Beautiful formula

    Hi everyone. I just made a myspace account, included this forums link. I love this forum,and I am interested in physics. I'm only 17 though, so I would like a complex einstein theroum, perhaps a prerequiresite to E=MC squared? The lorentz contraction? time dilation theorum? Best of all, I...
  6. T

    Is romantic love just a fleeting chemical reaction?

    Is love so short? ROME (Reuters) - Your heartbeat accelerates, you have butterflies in the stomach, you feel euphoric and a bit silly. It's all part of falling passionately in love -- and scientists now tell us the feeling won't last more than a year. ADVERTISEMENT The powerful emotions that...
  7. S

    Is Love Truly Transient and Subjective?

    Can love be for one person and not for another as well? I mean: can i say that i love, if that love is for one person and not for another, as well? is love, then, both love and not-love? it appears that this must be true. i shall elaborate before this opens for debate. can love be said to...
  8. zoobyshoe

    Uncovering a WWII Love Story at the Swap Meet

    I found this picture at the swap meet today. It was in a box of a couple hundred old snapshots. Boxes like this show up there all the time. I don't know how this happens: people having no one left to pass their family photos on to. Sometimes these collections go back to the 1880's. I had to...
  9. M

    Don't you just love related rates?

    The angle of elevation of the Sun is decreasing at a rate of 0.25 rad/h. How fast is the shadow cast by a 400-ft-tall building increasing when the angle of elevation of the Sun is π/6? I thought about using the special triangle to find exact values for trig functions at π/6 but I don't know...
  10. K

    Is There an Internet Love Matching Machine?

    Does anybody know if internet already does one or the following : 1) give the data of your wanted love and it automatically gives you the matching level (from names, salaries, bank account, physical datas, cultural preferences or even DNA)... 2) and composes the appropriate gift idea : poem...
  11. K

    Is (physical) love worth something ?

    I just wanted to have your opinion on the following, which is the basement of transaction : I take here the financial aspect of the deal : if you are a man, and you think a woman is worth nothing, then you don't pay her when wanting/having done the physical love ?? And for the inverse way...
  12. T

    What is the true definition of love?

    I know there is no some definition of it, but I just wanted to know what you think. If you were asked "What is love?", what would you say? Love is ...
  13. matthyaouw

    Former bands you'd love to see

    Out of all the bands no longer in existence, which would you have most liked to see? A few of mine: Alice in Chains Soundgarden The Smashing Pumpkins Led Zeppelin Rage Against the Machine. I was meant to be born in '76, not '86, I'm telling you!
  14. E

    Would love to hear your opinions on this program

    I had always enjoyed the thought of being a geneticist, and I only recently found out about this program that would let me double major in both biochem and genetics (http://biochemistry.tamu.edu/?ch=ugrad&sec=welcome), and I'd like to hear your opinions on it, perhaps on the courses offered as...
  15. G

    Dealing with Unrequited Love: How to Cope and Stay Sane

    If you love someone, and they don't love you back, what can you do? i mean, aside from hope they change their mind. how do you just deal with it? what if you want to continue to love them? how do you stay sane?
  16. Astronuc

    Male mouse sings a song of love

    Male mice serenade potential mates with ultrasonic love songs, a study by US scientists has revealed. The ultrasonic chirps emitted by mice resemble birdsong. http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/sci/tech/4395664.stm
  17. G

    Help! I Love Him and He's in Arizona - What Do I Do?

    i love him. he's in arizona. what do i do? OOOK... how about some advice? info? I've been trying to find cheap flights and all that. i can't really afford to go out and visit him in arizona but i'd like to. i wish i had some friends or something to stay with... but i don't. so i'll probably...
  18. L

    Who Will Win the 2021 World Series: Cardinals or White Sox?

    Two full games for the price of one. (go 'stros) My prediction: Cards over ChiSox in the WS.
  19. V

    Modulo, congruences and primes - the love story

    Can somebody please give me a hint as to how to do the following proof please? I have no idea what to use or where to start :( Suppose that p is a prime and a is an integer which is not divisible by p. Prove that there exists an integer b such that ba is congruent to 1 mod p^2. Thank you. T
  20. D

    Does anybody else feel that their love of math and physics has isolated them?

    Somehow, I find it harder and harder to talk to people, because pure mathematics is really the only thing that interests me, and, uh, most people don't share that feeling. I find it hard to talk about other stuff... Anybody else feel the same way?
  21. S

    Who is patty falling in love with?

    NOW TAKING WAGERS! Minimum bet is 1 "get out of ban free cards". Who's your candidate!? Who's your candidate!?
  22. z-component

    Cheers to PhysicsForums: Showing Support & Love for All Science Enthusiasts

    I would just like to say that... I love PhysicsForums. PF has been a home for me for many months now and I can't describe how useful it has been. I bought a subscription today to show my ongoing support for PF and those who make it not just another science forum. Cheers to PF! :tongue:
  23. Norman

    I love the TV show Most Extreme Elimination Challenge

    I love the TV show Most Extreme Elimination Challenge also known as MXC. It is horrible and has no redeeming social value, but I laugh my butt off. Anything that is voiced over in English I find funny, but this game is completely out of control. Anyone else a fan? My wife and I love to watch...
  24. Lisa!

    Finding Love in a Chat Room: Can It Really Happen?

    I read in another forum: I wanted to tell him the legend of the Franzbear, but this case is abit different. :tongue2: What do you think? PS I quoted him exactly.
  25. R

    What are some of America's Greatest Contributions to the World?

    Having dished out lots of criticism of America over the last few years, I thought it would be nice to have a thread to acknowledge the many wonderful things America has contributed to the world. 1) Rock'n'Roll music. Thanks America!
  26. wolram

    Proof of Love: Signs Your Pet Loves You

    You know your dog loves you if it gives you a wash after licking its bits. you know your cat loves you when it leaves a present in the litter tray. :yuck:
  27. Monique

    What Makes the Nissan 350z a Strong Competitor in the World of Sports Cars?

    Nissan 350z is a strong competitor http://ployer.com/archives/nissan-350z.jpg although I think the black Audi TT is nicer other cars?
  28. J

    Solving Geometry Problem with 3 Equilateral Triangles

    I love geometry :) Hey all! This is one problem I haven't been able to solve. I've had a class on theorems relative to circles and triangles but I still can't figure this one out. 3 identical, equilateral triangles are placed as seen on the attachment. Their sides measure 28cm, and the...
  29. G

    Am I Moving On or Just Stuck in My EX's Shadow?

    everyone comes on here and complains about there girl problems, so i want to complain about my boy issues... I broke up with my fiance a while ago. Weird circumstances, its for the best, but it killed me... he'd found another girl... so i had just met this guy, and he and i became friends...
  30. E

    What is True Love: Finding the Answer

    My question should really makes me feel ashamed :blushing:, but honestly it seemed to be like the perfect thing for her and me and also I admit it's so ironic she is what I had pictured her to be...But there are facts in our lives we can never change, right ? One thing I need from her is just...
  31. H

    John Gottman: The Mathematics of Love

    http://www.edge.org/3rd_culture/gottman05/gottman05_index.html
  32. L

    Love Is Confusion: Finding Love in Unusual Places

    love is confussion! How many people can one fall in love with? I'm 24 and have known my wife for 7 years and been married to her for 2.5 years. I love her and I do care for her. We have very different personalities and one would ask how we even ended up together. Its one of which opposites...
  33. A

    What is the science of life?

    Score! hehe :rofl:
  34. Math Is Hard

    Superficial Love: Examining My Feelings

    I meet a man at a party. He is drop-dead gorgeous and I have a very pleasant time chatting with him. I am head-over-heels in love with the guy. He asks me out on a date, and, of course, I go. After a few more dates, however, I discover he is really very self-absorbed and shallow. I decide that I...
  35. B

    Navigating Unrequited Love: Should I Send the Email?

    I've been talking to this girl for the past few weeks, and we've really been getting along. We even went to get drinks (tea, I'm only 17) on Wednesday at this one college. Things were going great, and I was ready to ask her to prom... (Saturday morning)--- I'm talking to her online, and...
  36. A

    Space Love: A Comic for Astro Nerds!

    A bit of lighter fare then usual but this seemed like the right place to put it. My roomie just sent me this following comic. I thought it was pretty good myself and thought some other astro nerds would agree! :biggrin: http://cheston.com/pbf/PBF039BCSpaceLove.jpg
  37. C

    Japanese Culture and the Importance of Book Covers: A Scientific Perspective

    That is Japanese people's thought, so how about you and your people ? Which one is important ? Why do you think it is important ? Thank you Christophe...
  38. Ivan Seeking

    Is Chocolate the New Way to Say 'I Love You'?

    The new Hersheys commercial cracks me up! They are trying to redefine flowers as saying "I'm sorry", and chocolate as saying "I love you". And like the girl in the commercial says, who wants to hear "I'm sorry" for Valentines Day! :rofl: Those advertising clowns kill me. They have gotten us...
  39. C

    Exploring the Reality of Love: Perspectives from Science and Society

    "Do you feel love is real?" I was listening to the Smashing Pumpkins' songs today and one of the lyrics was "Do you feel love is real?" I was just wondering what your views on love were because I know people think of love in different ways. ...plus its Valentine's Day soon
  40. K

    How do you know your parents love you?

    For me, I know my mom loves me because she's always willing to talk, and because she tells me and bakes me cookies if I ask her to sometimes. My dad doesn't really say it, and I don't say it to him. But, I know he does love me just by the fact that he goes to work and works three times...
  41. JasonRox

    I really need this I would love any help.

    I'm working on an assignment right now, and completed it. It won't give me extra marks, but I want it for personal reasons. I have built a program that constructs a sequence, which is a pain the a$$ to do. Really hard since I just started programming, but it sure saves a lot of time...
  42. cepheid

    Is Einstein's Theory of Relativity Truly Incorrect According to New TOE?

    Hey guys! I've got a new theory of everything! (TOE). Turns out Einstein was dead wrong! Relativity is all nonsense! :biggrin: My theory is based on crazy particle wave stringy things that I call "pf'ions". I derived their existence after revising the foundations of mathematics. My NEW...
  43. N

    Is Homework Causing More Harm Than Good for Our Children?

    With regard to our 'hot-house' system of education in the UK, I would like to see homework made optional, so that children can socialise more and be under less pressure. We are only young once and not everyone is suited to the academic scene. Much of what we learn in school is in any case soon...
  44. Ivan Seeking

    Aliens Can Watch `i Love Lucy'

    http://contactincontext.org/cic/v2i1/lucy.pdf
  45. N

    Why do some people value the life of a dog over a homeless person?

    If a dog is found whining and unattended on the street, someone is bound to take it in and inform the RSPCA (Royal Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals), who will come and collect it and give it a home in the warm. Not so with our own animal species and I sometimes wonder why some...
  46. Loren Booda

    What is the true definition of love?

    How many times have you been in love, if ever? Please describe your perception of romantic love, or what you believe love should be.
  47. F

    Love UNIX? Share Your Story Here!

    I just started a FORTRAN 90 programming class this quarter, and we do all our work on the school's UNIX servers, and I love it. The simplicity, no dealing with all the unnecessary crap windows comes attached with. I just felt like sharing.
  48. E

    Finding Fellow StarCraft Players: Sharing Our Love of the Game

    Any starcraft players out there? I personally love the game, but don't have much time to play with school, and am not very good at it.
  49. A

    How do you know you felt love?

    As I am going through a very difficult break up right now, I find that I am frequently thinking of this concept we call love. Love is defined as "A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive...
  50. E

    Love vs Thinking: Is Having Both Possible?

    first of all, I'm only fairly confident that I've chosen the appropriate forum for this. anyway -- loving and thinking, for me, have always been two different, distinct, indulgances. however, I've noticed that if i partake one, i ignore the other. to wit, bein' a lover is grand but...
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