What is Love: Definition and 339 Discussions

Love encompasses a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states, from the most sublime virtue or good habit, the deepest interpersonal affection, to the simplest pleasure. An example of this range of meanings is that the love of a mother differs from the love of a spouse, which differs from the love of food. Most commonly, love refers to a feeling of strong attraction and emotional attachment.Love is considered to be both positive and negative, with its virtue representing human kindness, compassion, and affection, as "the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another" and its vice representing human moral flaw, akin to vanity, selfishness, amour-propre, and egotism, as potentially leading people into a type of mania, obsessiveness or codependency. It may also describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one's self or animals. In its various forms, love acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts. Love has been postulated to be a function that keeps human beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of the species.Ancient Greek philosophers identified six forms of love: essentially, familial love (in Greek, Storge), friendly love or platonic love (Philia), romantic love (Eros), self-love (Philautia), guest love (Xenia) and divine love (Agape). Modern authors have distinguished further varieties of love: unrequited love, empty love, companionate love, consummate love, infatuated love, self-love, and courtly love. Numerous cultures have also distinguished Ren, Yuanfen, Mamihlapinatapai, Cafuné, Kama, Bhakti, Mettā, Ishq, Chesed, Amore, Charity, Saudade (and other variants or symbioses of these states), as culturally unique words, definitions, or expressions of love in regards to a specified "moments" currently lacking in the English language.Scientific research on emotion has increased significantly over the past two decades. The color wheel theory of love defines three primary, three secondary and nine tertiary love styles, describing them in terms of the traditional color wheel. The triangular theory of love suggests "intimacy, passion and commitment" are core components of love. Love has additional religious or spiritual meaning. This diversity of uses and meanings combined with the complexity of the feelings involved makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, compared to other emotional states.

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  1. robphy

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  2. B

    Im in love with my maths teacher

    I hate to say it but unfortunately I love my Maths teacher. She is very hot, intelligent and cultured. We went for a meal yesterday and I had a great time. Unfortunately she's married and there's no way in hell she loves me. It wouldn't be so bad if my lessons with her weren't to end in a few...
  3. wolram

    How many imperfections could one tolerate and still truly love someone

    Be true to yourself here please, perfection is in the eye of the beholder, but how many imperfections could you tolerate and still truly (love) some one?
  4. I

    Is Preteen Love Genuine or Fickle? Examining the Complexities of Young Love

    Kids between 10-12 start to 'notice' the opposite sex and some may even show feelings of strong love for one. But the thing is they don't show this feeling to anyone of the opposite sex, even if others are attractive or physically appealing as well. At that age people are not fully aware of...
  5. H

    Philosophy of Love: Examining Ancient Theory

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  6. S

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  7. S

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  8. Cyrus

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  9. Cyrus

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  10. J

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  11. T

    News Love them Clueless Editorials, Sometimes

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  12. Cyrus

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  13. G

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  14. S

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  15. S

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  16. C

    Love & Appreciation for Our Website Community

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  17. ZapperZ

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  18. ZapperZ

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  19. S

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  20. Evo

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  21. P

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  22. Lisa!

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  23. ZapperZ

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  24. dav2008

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  25. ZapperZ

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  26. wolram

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  27. Ivan Seeking

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  28. H

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  29. Jameson

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  30. D

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  31. zoobyshoe

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  32. Galileo

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  33. S

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  34. B

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  35. Pengwuino

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  36. R

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  37. jimmy p

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  38. D

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  39. C

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  40. D

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  41. Ivan Seeking

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  42. P

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  43. Cyrus

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  44. F

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  45. C

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  46. Ivan Seeking

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  47. Pengwuino

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  48. A

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  49. Cyrus

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  50. B

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