You wouldn't be friends with someone who behaves this way

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In summary, the conversation discusses a person who often speaks out of turn in the classroom and tries to predict the professor's next statements. The speaker wonders if they would be friends with someone like this, and concludes that they might if they had redeeming qualities. However, they also mention that they would confront the disruptive behavior. The conversation then shifts to discussing the limitations of discussing such issues online.
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in the classroom, would you? This person is always the first one to speak up in class whenever the instructor asks the class a question, and oftentimes speaks out of turn. Whenever this student does the latter, it is often for the purpose of predicting what the professor is going to say next (sometimes to the professor's chagrin), or to make a remark about what is being said. You wouldn't be friends with someone so disruptive and so ready to prove himself to be smart in front of the entire class like this, would you?
 
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Eclair_de_XII said:
in the classroom, would you? This person is always the first one to speak up in class whenever the instructor asks the class a question, and oftentimes speaks out of turn. Whenever this student does the latter, it is often for the purpose of predicting what the professor is going to say next (sometimes to the professor's chagrin), or to make a remark about what is being said. You wouldn't be friends with someone so disruptive and so ready to prove himself to be smart in front of the entire class like this, would you?
I have not yet met anyone who is completely free of annoying habits, and almost no one, no matter how annoying in some respects, that does not have some redeeming features. So, to answer your question, if this individual had positive characteristics that I found attractive then I might very well choose to make friends with them. Once that friendship was established I would probably ask them why they were being such a ******** in the classroom.

********* - Insert appropriate derogatory term.
 
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I don't think anyone can say a lot qualified about such issues on the internet. There is simply not enough knowledge about the situation.

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1. How do you define "behaving this way" in a friendship?

Behaving this way in a friendship can refer to a variety of negative behaviors such as constantly lying, being manipulative, showing disrespect or lack of empathy, being unreliable, or consistently causing harm to the other person.

2. What are the potential consequences of being friends with someone who behaves this way?

Being friends with someone who behaves this way can lead to a toxic and unhealthy relationship. It can also cause emotional distress and damage to one's self-esteem. In extreme cases, it can result in physical harm or danger.

3. Can someone change their behavior and still maintain a friendship?

It is possible for someone to change their behavior and improve their friendship. However, this change requires genuine effort and willingness from both parties. It also depends on the severity of the behavior and the willingness of the person to change.

4. How can someone address a friend's negative behavior?

It is important to communicate openly and directly with your friend about their behavior. Express how their behavior makes you feel and give specific examples. Offer support and understanding, but also set boundaries and be prepared to walk away from the friendship if necessary.

5. What are some red flags to look out for in a friendship?

Some red flags to look out for in a friendship include consistently feeling drained or negative after spending time with the person, being constantly criticized or put down, feeling like you have to constantly walk on eggshells around them, and experiencing a lack of trust or respect in the relationship.

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