To answer the OP's question, it sounds like you're looking for the
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equality_(mathematics)#Some_basic_logical_properties_of_equality. This is included as either an axiom schema or an inference rule (depending on which deductive system you're working with) in first order logic itself, and is therefore considered more "basic" than the axioms of the real numbers -- which is why you're allowed to assume it even though it's not explicitly listed among them.
I've seen this confuse a lot of students -- most students take a real analysis course before they take a course in formal logic, and the sudden emphasis on proving things that had previously been taken for granted can lead to a lot of hesitation in using anything, no matter how basic, that isn't explicitly listed as an axiom, yet the real analysis textbooks don't usually explicitly list the axioms of logic itself among the things you're allowed to assume -- even though you wouldn't be able to get very far without being able to infer that a=b ⇒ a+c=b+c. A bit of an oversight, in my opinion.