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When we "charge" a conventional metal-plate capacitor, the power supply pushes electrons into one plate, and the fields from these extra electrons reach across the gap between the plates, forcing an equal number of electrons to simultaneously flow out of the other plate and into the power supply. This creates opposite areas of imbalanced charge: one plate has less electrons and excess protons, and the other plate has more electrons than protons. Each individual plate does store charge.
However, if we consider the capacitor as a whole, no electrons have been put into the capacitor. None have been removed. The same number of electrons are in a "charged" capacitor as in a capacitor which has been totally "discharged." Yes, a certain amount of charge has been forced to flow momentarily during "charging," and a rising potential difference has appeared. But the current is directed
through the capacitor, and the incoming electrons force other electrons to leave at the same time. Every bit of charge that's injected into one terminal *must* be forced out of the other terminal at the same time. The amount of charge inside the capacitor never changes. The net charge on each plate is canceled by the opposite charge on the other plate. Capacitors are never "charged" with electric charge!