A few suggestions:
1. Take the scope outside during the day and find a distant object through the eyepiece. This will ensure that the scope is working properly and lead into step 2. (Note that the image will most likely be upside down and/or mirrored, which is quite normal) If the telescope came with multiple eyepieces, use the eyepiece with the larger number on it first. For example, if the telescope came with a 9mm and a 24mm eyepiece, use the 24 mm eyepiece to first find an object and then switch it out for the 9 mm. The larger the number, the less magnification it has and the easier it is to find an object.
2. If the scope has a smaller scope attached to it (a finderscope) then center this smaller scope on the same object that you see in the main telescope so that both are aligned with each other.
3. Take it back out during a clear night and find a distant light source on the ground if possible. Find this light source first in the smaller finderscope. Now look through the main telescope and check to see if both scopes are still aligned with each other. If not, just realign like in step 2.
4. Find a bright, obvious target in the sky. The Moon, a bright star, or any of the visible planets would work fine. Find it first in the finderscope, then look through the main telescope using the largest number eyepiece. You should be able to see the object. It will probably be out of focus, so adjust the focus until the object is as clear as it can be made.
A few things to note:
Visual observing in today's age of digital imaging is lackluster for most people. You will NOT see bright, colorful nebulas and galaxies. At BEST you will see what is called "faint fuzzies" when you look at any nebulas or galaxies. They will simply look like dimly fuzzy clouds of light than you may have to avert your visions slightly to see.
Star clusters, the planets, and the Moon are generally good targets that you can see from any location. I suggest downloading the Google Sky app (or other similar program) on a smartphone if you have one. It will show you the location of the planets and other major targets in the sky.
The amount of light pollution near your location can drastically affect the visibility of dim objects. Bright stars and the visible planets won't be affected, but if you live near or in a major city you can say goodbye to seeing any deep sky objects like nebulas and galaxies.
Also, if you happen to be in the Tucson Arizona area I'd be happy to stop by and show you.
Edit: Also, check out the site
www.cloudynights.com for a good community of amateur astronomers. The forums there are very active and there should be a great many very knowledgeable members that can help you with practically anything you can ever think of when it comes to astronomy.