From my understanding:
The absence of any light, therefore the absence of colour, is black. I’m not talking about looking at a black surface among other coloured surfaces. I’m talking about being in a complete light free environment. There are only a few such places naturally occurring on Earth. One is at the bottom of the ocean, and a few others are in some caves. I’ve been to one such cave, which I believe was in Tennessee. During a tour, we entered one ‘room’ and the tour guide explained how dark it naturally was in that room. He then turned off the lights. It was pitch black, however, after several moments I did notice very faint pulses of grey.
So to me, this means that the absence of colour IS black, however after a while our eyes, due to the photoreceptors going mad trying to find a light source to focus on, perceive it as dark grey.