elect_eng said:
You are basically saying that the centripetal force is also not a real force. So, another point of confusion is what is meant by a "real" force.
Centripetal force is just a label for the net force that produces the centripetal acceleration. It's not a separate "real" force itself. In this example, the only forces that would appear on a free body diagram for the stone are string tension and gravity. (A common error among freshmen is to show a third force labeled "centripetal force" on such a diagram.) As stated before, the horizontal component of the force exerted by the string on the stone (an electrostatic force) provides the centripetal force.
In another sense, the forces acting on the stone are "real" since they have
agents--something that exerts the force. The
string exerts a force on the stone and the
earth exerts a force on the stone. So, in that sense, the forces that produce the centripetal acceleration are real, agented forces. (As opposed to
centrifugal force, which has no agent.)
I thought
D H gave an outstanding explanation.
Jeff Reid said:
The definitions for the adjective form of these terms:
centripetal - proceeding or acting in a direction toward a center or axis
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/centripetal
centrifugal - proceeding or acting in a direction away from a center or axis
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/centrifugal
So although physicists have an issue with the term "centrifugal force", it would seem to be valid usage in common English, in this case for the force the stone exerts onto the string.
There's nothing wrong with using a dictionary to learn the etymological roots and everyday meaning of words. (But to use an ordinary dictionary as a scientific reference is even lamer than using Wiki.

) In this case the common meaning of "centripetal" and "centrifugal" are completely consistent with their scientific usage. (Often, perfectly good common words are co-opted by science and given a very different technical meaning. Look up the common meaning of words like work, energy, weight, mass and see how you do.)
If you want to play the dictionary game, don't stop too soon:
centrifugal force -- the apparent force that is felt by an object moving in a curved path that acts outwardly away from the center of rotation
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/centrifugal force
That's not too bad. Not crisp enough to pass a physics test, but not bad.
The dictionary on my desk (American Heritage) is better:
Centrifugal force: The component of apparent force on a body in curvilinear motion, as observed from that body, that is directed away from the center of curvature or axis of rotation.
I like it.
(And note that neither dictionary entry mentions anything about "reaction" forces.

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