Well, in reality most physicists subscribe to the David Mermin interpretation of Quantum Mechanics which essentially consists of just one sentence:
"Shut up and calculate!"
When asked or polled they'll often just say the Copenhagen Interpretation (which is really very incorrect given the original meaning of the interpretation) because that's sort of a code word among physicists that means "*shrug* I don't really care". Similarly, a lot of physicists look at QFT as essentially the physics of Feynman Diagrams because that's how you really get any experimentally verifiable numbers out of it. So I think a lot of physicists would just off the cuff say "*shrug*, Feynman Diagram's represent real physics, why not, it doesn't really make a difference to me". And as I mentioned earlier this outlook led things astray for awhile (or so Zee claims, I'm not particularly knowledgeable about the history of QFT).
So I think the default position amongst working physicists is to just say Copenhagen Interpretation and Feynman Diagrams are real because this is sort of a code for "I really don't care about the Ontology of physics, since that way leads to madness and no remotely appliable (or publishable) results". You'd be surprised how few physicists give any thought to interpretation at all, the reason being it doesn't really make a difference and it's not going to help your career. But at the end of the day the concept of virtual particles has its origin in a mathematical crutch which has been shown to be less than perfect. It's really directly analogous to the role of perturbation in quantum mechanics, it's only good for catching perturbing potentials, if the perturbation is large (or the x^4 term of your QFT is large) your whole perturbation/virtual particle interpretations is going to be wrong, and that's known from the get go. That alone makes the Ontological notion of taking them as real to be crazy IMHO.