Logan5 said:
The object which fall does not "hover" : it follow a geodesic of course (free fall).
This is correct. But if the object falls into the hole, through the horizon, it is not "frozen" near the horizon. Similarly, if the hole is formed by collapsing matter, it is not a "frozen star"; the collapsing matter is not "frozen". It collapses all the way to form a singularity at ##r = 0##.
Logan5 said:
In the "frozen star" model, objects who follow a geodesic asymptotically approches the horizon, never stop or hover, and only cross the horizon at Minkowski time = infinity (as given by well known equations or coordinates).
If this is what you mean by the "frozen star" model, then it is not a different model from the black hole model; it is just an incomplete version of the black hole model. It only covers the region outside the horizon. This model does not say the horizon is not there, or that nothing can fall through it. It only says that it cannot describe such events.
What you are missing here is that the "Minkowski time" of an event is just a number; it has no physical significance in itself. The proper time elapsed on the distant observer's clock between two events on his worldline has physical significance; but there is no invariant way of saying which event on that distant observer's worldline happens "at the same time" as some event near, or at, or inside the horizon of the black hole. Your "Minkowski time" is simply one convention for saying which events happen "at the same time"; but it is only a convention. And since it assigns the value "infinity" to events on the horizon, it is a convention that simply does not work there. There is no physical meaning to that "infinity" value. The way to fix it is to adopt a different convention that does not have that problem.
Your question about what time T3, by the distant observer's clock, he will observe GWs from an object falling into the hole does have physical meaning; but note that it is a question about events on that observer's worldline. If I tell you a finite value for T3, that does not tell you, in itself, "what time" the object crossed the horizon, according to the distant observer's clock; answering that question still requires adopting a convention, even if you know T3. Even with a finite T3, you could
still adopt the convention that assigns the value "infinity" as the "Minkowski time" of events on the horizon, such as the object crossing it. You might not want to, because it seems unreasonable to you; but "unreasonable" is not the same as "mathematically impossible".
Logan5 said:
If this remark is correct, do you agree that the thought experiment in post #1 can be modified to measure these "evidences" and determine a finite T3, as soon as the signal is significant of a "crossing horizon" event ?
The answer for the finite T3 that jimgraber gave you already does that. The GW pattern he describes
is the "evidence" that the object fell through the horizon. If it hadn't, a different GW pattern would have been observed.