PeroK said:
The key to understanding this is to look at the mathematics of accelerating reference frames. once you see what is happening mathematically gives you a better insight into this asymmetry.
Let's look at the maths. We have an inertial reference frame (IRF) in which two objects an initial distance ##d## apart accelerate identically at a constant acceleration, ##a##. In the original IRF, their positions are:
##x_1(t) = \frac12 at^2## and ##x_2(t) = d + \frac12 at^2##
We have, therefore, two events that represent the two objects reaching a speed ##v## relative to the original IRF. And the coordinates of those events in the original IRF are:
##E_1 = (t, x_1(t)), \ E_2 = (t, x_2(t))##
Let's take a second IRF traveling at the speed ##v## relative to the first. And, let's transform the time coordinate of the two events to this IRF. We have:
##t_1' = \gamma(t - \frac{vx_1}{c^2}), \ t_2' = \gamma(t - \frac{vx_2}{c^2})##
But, these times are different! In this IRF we have an asymmetry. The objects are at rest in this reference frame at different times. If ##v## is less than the final velocity, then this frame is never a common instantaneous rest frame for both objects. An observer using this frame would measure the objects coming to rest (relative to this IRF) at different times.
If ##v## is the final velocity, at which point the acceleration stops, then in this IRF one object reaches the final velocity first, then stops accelerating, and then the other object reaches the final velocity later, at which time this becomes the common rest frame for both objects.
If the objects are equipped with clocks, then - by symmetry of the motion in the original IRF - the clocks will remain synchronised in this frame. But, they are not synchronised in the frame defined by their final velocity.
Or, if we look at this another way. Imagine the frame traveling at the final speed ##v## at the beginning of the experiment. In this frame the clocks are not synchronised at the outset. Again, the relativity of simultaneity applies. The clocks start out out of synch. In this frame, the objects start and stop the acceleration phase at different times, but have otherwise identical acceleration profiles. So, at the end of the acceleration the original offset in their times is preserved. The same total time dilation applies to both and so in this frame they end the acceleration phase as they started it: out of synch by the same offset.
Either way you study it, the clocks remain in synch in the original IRF and remain out of synch in the final IRF.