b-pipe,
I think I see what you're asking. It's a fair question.
The ball reaches it's peak when the upward velocity becomes zero, right?
Note that the function describing its velocity (first upward very quickly, then slowing down, velocity becomes zero, starts falling slowly, then faster and faster...) is continuous.
Also note that the downward force of gravity is constant on the bird/ball. This means that, since there are no other forces acting on the ball, the acceleration (downward) is constant.
So mathematically, both of there's functions are continuous, and the derivative is differentiable at every point. So we have nice smooth functions to play with.
My point is that the ball remains motionless in the air (i.e. velocity = 0) only for an instant. When I say an instant I mean an arbitrarily small bit of time. So small we can't measure it. If you throw a ball in the air it will NEVER reach its peak and then stay there for 5 minutes and then decide to fall.
So, "What is the time between the ball reaching it's peak and the ball falling?" It's essentially zero.
Is this making sense? Let me continue...
Look at the number line. We can ask " what is the 'distance' between 3 and 5?" Easy. It's 2. take 0 and 1. the 'distance' is 1.
Your question is like asking "what is the distance between 0 and the next positive number?" "1!" No wait, not 1, there are more numbers in there. "1/2?" No, many more numbers are between 1/2 and 0. If you give me any positive number that you think is close to zero, i can find one that's closer. Can you see how small these numbers would get?
As I said before, we can't measure the length of time during which the velocity of the ball was 0. The same is true for any velocity in this case. For how long was the ball traveling at 1m/s? Only for an instant, because the next instant the ball was either going a bit faster (downwards) or slower (going up).
What we can measure easily is the the time between two velocities, such as the time it takes the ball to go from the ground at the initial velocity (like 10m/s) and it's peak (0m/s). Or in your question maybe we could define "appear motionless to the human eye" as really velocities like 0.002m/s. So we can measure the time between the point where the ball is traveling up at 0.002m/s and traveling down at 0.002m/s.
Does this make sense?