**There are many ways to answer this question. Mathematically speaking, the question is moot. Category Theory
is the mathematics of relationalism, by definition. What did you think all those arrows were for? **

In this way I can even draw an arrow for the relation ``does agree with´´ between Kea an Careful, but I am afraid that will not be confirmed in practice.
** Gray (and others) demonstrated that the study of
relations between relations could be fruitful because it uncovered combinatorial structures that were previously unknown. **
Fine, but you must realize how terribly hard it is to characterize an event in GR, and apart from the relation ``x is in the past of y or not´´, there is really no other canonical relation one can figure out generically. So, this relation between relations seems to far fetched for GR at least.
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Eventually it was understood that even
numbers themselves have contexts, and the contexts affect their type. **
You mean here for example that 5 does not make sense without specifying that it is a natural number (and not one of the prime field defined by 7 - say)?
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Why shouldn't quantum numbers, for instance, be like that? Of course they should! Because it is a relational principle. **
I do not get that, the numbers in quantum theory are the complex ones, so there is no ambiguity.
**But this is just mathematics, and it remains to be seen whether or not it has anything to do with the real world. **
Here the inverse of our first relation applies
** No one (sensible) doubts that GR is a relational theory. **
I did not say that, I said that many people do not understand relationism properly yet...
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A few people have worried about how to think of QM more relationally. Rovelli is one. I guess Careful is another.**
But Careful's and Rovelli's strategies are diametrically opposite to each other.
There is only one thing I will still add: start out more humble. We do not even know the boundaries of QM, how can we without this even make a suitable ansatz about what QG should be.
Cheers,
Careful