Let's say you charge a capacitor up to five volts. A volt is one joule per coulomb. Now, imagine that a hypothetical electron were to manage to jump across the capacitor, from the negative plate up to the positive plate. It feels the repulsion of the negative plate and the attraction of the positive plate, so as it's flying it gets faster, that is, it picks up kinetic energy. It hits the other side with more energy than it started. How much more energy? The electron was 1.6*10^-19 columbs, and it fell across five volts, so the energy gained is qV = 8*10^-19 Joules.
Now let's talk about something completely unrelated. Instead of talking about the electron that *did* jump across the gap, let's talk about the electron that didn't jump. I have my capacitor here and I try to force some current through it. So an electron comes through the wire and up into the negative plate. For whatever reason, it doesn't jump the gap. It stays on the plate. But it does "repel" an electron on the opposite-facing plate and that repulsed electron then goes out the other wire. Viewed from the outside, an electron went into one end of the capacitor and came out the other side. But we know that what *really* happened was that one electron went in and a different electron came out. So now the negative plate has a surplus negative charge on it and the positive plate has a surplus positive charge. Where there are charges there's an electric field, and we can measure the strength of the electric field by a voltage. So what's the voltage you get across a capacitor when an electron passes through it? It turns out to have a lot to do with the design of the capacitor. If you put a sheet of dielectric material inside the capacitor, for example, the resulting voltage is lower than if the dielectric weren't present. If you can't afford a dielectric, moving the plates further apart will have the same effect. So the relationship between the charge accumulated on the plates and the resulting voltage between the plates varies from capacitor to capacitor... But those two values are always proportional, so we call the constant of proportionality the "capacitance" of that particular capacitor. Then if we have a 1 farad capacitor (1 farad = 1 Coulomb per volt) and a 1.6*10^-19 coulomb electron, we expect the voltage across the capacitor to now be 1.6*10^-19 Volts.
Notice that we solved two entirely different problems:
Problem A: When electrons *don't* jump across the capacitor, a current flows but a voltage builds up. How much voltage? (Answer: voltage = charge / capacitance).
Problem B: When electrons *do* jump across the capacitor, they get a lot of energy out of it. How much energy? (Answer: Energy = charge * voltage).
Recognizing this distinction should help keep you out of several types of trouble.
To answer your actual question: "What does it mean to say there is a difference in electrical potential between two points?" An electric potential difference is measured in volts, so I'm going to refer to this concept as a voltage between two points. The voltage between two points tells you how much energy a charged particle can get by moving from one point to the other. It doesn't matter whether a particle actually *does* undergo that motion; it's sufficient to imagine a hypothetical particle. The ultimate destination of that energy depends on the type of object:
1. When a 1 Coulomb particle moves across the terminals of a 5-Volt battery, 5 Joules of chemical energy inside the battery are converted into 5 joules of electric potential energy in the particle.
2. When a 1C particle moves across the terminals of a 120-Volt light bulb, 120 Joules of electric potential energy in the particle are transformed into light (and a lot of heat).
3. When a 1C particle moves through a 15-Volt motor, 15 Joules of electric potential energy in the particle are transformed into motion (and a little bit of noise, waste heat, etc.)
4. When a 1C particle jumps across a 30-Volt gap between the plates of a capacitor, 30 joules of electric potential energy are transformed into the particle's kinetic energy... but when it hits the other plate a lot of that kinetic energy is going to turn into heat.
So when a charged particle moves across a voltage, its electric potential energy either increases or decreases... Electric potential energy increases in gadgets that "generate" electricity and decreases in gadgets that consume electricity. When the electric potential energy increases, that energy had to be taken from somewhere: the chemical energy in a battery, the rotational motion of a turbine generator, light hitting a solar cell, etc. When the electric potential energy decreases, that energy goes somewhere: into a light bulb, a motor, a microwave oven, or into the kinetic energy of the particle itself.