Friend Rejections: What Happens?

[Math Is Hard]

What happens if I reject a friend request? Will the requester get a message saying that I have rejected him/her?

 

[Greg Bernhardt]

What happens if I reject a friend request? Will the requester get a message saying that I have rejected him/her?

no, nothing happens

 

[Math Is Hard]

ok, thanks. I got one from someone I don't know, and I don't want to add them, but I don't want to be rude, either.

 

[G01]

Whew! Same situation here, and I also didn't want to be rude! What a relief!

 

[Jimmy Snyder]

Send 'em over to me. I love being rude.

 

[muppet]

ok, thanks. I got one from someone I don't know, and I don't want to add them, but I don't want to be rude, either.

So you'll just leave them hanging

 

[Moonbear]

So you'll just leave them hanging

That's what I had been doing. I had no idea what happened either and didn't want them to feel rejected if they were just someone new trying to figure out how PF works, but didn't want to really add someone I don't know either. I figured maybe eventually I'd approve their request later if I found out who they were and liked them.

 

[Defennder]

Hmm, I just got a new friend request as well. I'm guessing that it's probably from the same member who requested friendship with you guys...

 

[muppet]

Hmm, I just got a new friend request as well. I'm guessing that it's probably from the same member who requested friendship with you guys...

I don't have a stalker...
I feel left out

 

[Math Is Hard]

So you'll just leave them hanging

*sigh* you're right.

the guilt..the guilt..

 

[turbo]

*sigh* you're right.

the guilt..the guilt..

"Why do MIH hate me?" "Why don't she write?"

Ah the pain, the angst, the self-loathing...

That's OK, MIH, don't even think about the psychological damage you are wreaking with your callous indifference to your potential friends.

 

[Evo]

<Evo checks to see if MIH has rejected her>

PHEW! I'm still MIH's friend!

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I don't have a stalker...
I feel left out

Check again.

 

[turbo]

PHEW! I'm still MIH's friend!

I might not be, after she reads my (just joshing!) post above. Maybe a jar of habanero relish would patch things up...

 

[Math Is Hard]

"Why do MIH hate me?" "Why don't she write?"

Ah the pain, the angst, the self-loathing...

That's OK, MIH, don't even think about the psychological damage you are wreaking with your callous indifference to your potential friends.

<Evo checks to see if MIH has rejected her>

PHEW! I'm still MIH's friend!

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OKAY! OKAY! UNCLE!

I will craft a tactful letter explaining that it's not really a rejection, just more of a "wait list" situation. The request will be reconsidered at a later date when I have gotten a chance to know something about the requestor.

 

[Evo]

OKAY! OKAY! UNCLE!

I will craft a tactful letter explaining that it's not really a rejection, just more of a "wait list" situation. The request will be reconsidered at a later date when I have gotten a chance to know something about the requestor.

You don't need to do that, it is probably the same person that has sent friendship requests to several of us in the past couple of days.

 

[Math Is Hard]

You don't need to do that, it is probably the same person that has sent friendship requests to several of us in the past couple of days.

shoot. I just finished composing my thoughtful, sensitive letter. I even included a list of members to approach who might have lower friendship standards.

 

[turbo]

shoot. I just finished composing my thoughtful, sensitive letter. I even included a list of members to approach who have might lower friendship standards.

I'd like to see that list, Left-Coaster. Could be fun.

Edit: I'm probably on the list. I haven't refused anybody.

Funny, since I subscribe to Groucho's philosophy that I wouldn't want to belong to any club that would agree to have me as a member...

 

[Evo]

shoot. I just finished composing my thoughtful, sensitive letter. I even included a list of members to approach who have might lower friendship standards.

Evo<----sopping Fresca out of her keyboard

 

[muppet]

Check again.

Evo you hardly count as an unknown stalker... but thanks!

"Why do MIH hate me?" "Why don't she write?"

Ah the pain, the angst, the self-loathing...

Too much blues just isn't healthy for a guy

 

[~christina~]

Whew! Same situation here, and I also didn't want to be rude! What a relief!

O.O omg, me too..I wonder if it was the same person.
Strange. I was like, I don't know you.

 

[Kurdt]

Well whoever it is will know if they ever find this thread.

 

[muppet]

I feel so loved!

 

[muppet]

On a related note, I just got added on msn by an e-mail address I didn't recognise. Conversation:
ME: Hi who's this?
Them: Hey. Age/sex/location?

 

[Hootenanny]

What happens if one 'breaks a friendship'?

 

[rootX]

On a related note, I just got added on msn by an e-mail address I didn't recognise. Conversation:
ME: Hi who's this?
Them: Hey. Age/sex/location?

I only added some stranger once ... and had this same conversation.
also:
ME: did I give u my id?
Her: that was my sister ...
ME: ook, later!

and, I blocked her.

 

[Lisa!]

What happens if I reject a friend request? Will the requester get a message saying that I have rejected him/her?

Don't you see a minus beside his name?

 

[Evo]

What happens if one 'breaks a friendship'?

I think your avatar just disappears from their friend's list.

 

[Kurdt]

You could try it with me Evo as long as we became friends afterwards again.