Hooloovoo said:
My goodness, but someone is touchy today.

Yeah, and that someone is obviously you.
As I said, my little jello analogy was merely an example of how one might make an explanation to someone who clearly DOESN'T have the background, and I pretty clearly said it was NOT a better actual explanation of the phenomenon (or even a good one).
Well, now I'm confused because you clearly
did say that your explanation was better than mathematical explanations that are incomprehensible to novices. My point here is that rather than dumb down the explanation, we should help smarten up the novice.
It is obvious from the question that was posed that the concept wasn't understood. The proper answer is to say "your question reveals some confusion, let me clear it up for you" rather than "you don't know what you're talking about, go somewhere else and read something before you come back here and ask questions again."

I've been helping people here for 4 years, and marlon has been for about 1.5 years. You've been here less than two months. Rather than lecture us on what a proper response is, how about you watch and learn for a little while?
First of all, marlon
did give a perfectly fine answer to Ben's question in Post #12. For some reason you decided to ignore that part of the post and instead focus on one line: "GO STUDY QED."
And second, when there is such an enormous gap in knowledge between what one (in this case, Ben) has studied and what he is asking about, it becomes necessary for someone to sit down and
teach him the subject in order to fully answer his question. Since that is too much to ask of anyone on a forum, we (that is, Mentors, Science Advisors, and Homework Helpers)
frequently point people in the right direction for self-study. Marlon did it with his "go study" comment, and I attempted to engage Ben by referring him to a popular account of QED and asking him where his last physics course left off. There is nothing wrong taking people who are seeking help, and advising them on how to help themselves. I don't understand why you find that idea so distasteful, but I sincerely believe that you are wrong for holding that opinion.
Third, if anything your comments in this thread only served to
deepen the confusion, not to help clear it up. That is what makes your admonition about a "proper answer" particularly irritating.
That said, I think it has been beaten to death now that "how big is a photon" and "what does it look like" are meaningless questions.
Another thing that has been beaten to death is the point you were trying to make. You have been answered thoroughly and lucidly by myself and others. I am astounded that you are still pushing the point.
However, the obvious thing these questions were asking is for a basic description of what a photon is, and how it behaves. This can be done, and has been done by some very fine minds, in plain language. At least for the basic summary information. I think the original poster probably would have been satisfied with "a photon has no size, doesn't look like anything, and behaves like this:..." without needing any explanation of how one would derive such conclusions.
He
was given those answers, and the thread is still going!
This is indeed a fantastic forum, and everyone here is interested in gaining understanding.
Glad you like it.
This justifies your snarky reactions how, exactly?
I haven't made any snarky reactions. I've been perfectly reasonable about explaining to you how we do things here. That is what moderators do. Kindly lose the defensive posture.