Hello 3h,
Good question. I definitely don't blame you for not immediately picking up a subtle difference, and my compliments for not taking everything you hear (

) for granted !
A standing wave in its simplest form is propagating in one dimension and going back from one end to the other. Like a distortion from the equilibrium position (straight) of a string. This distortion propagates in both directions along the string and bounces back at the fixed ends. If you use a bow to introduce just the right frequency, you get a nice
tone. Mechanical energy goes with the waves, but since amplitudes are same and directions opposite, no net energy transport in a direction
along the string.
However, the string gives off a small part of the mechanical energy to let the air around it vibrate as well. compression-expansion: sound ! This, however happens in a direction
perpendicular to the string. So the string
does lose mechanical energy and the vibration dampens out.
And sure enough, in actual musical instruments there is yet another mechanism: the case of e.g. a violin is also picking up the mechanical vibration (mainly via the bridge) and passes this on to the air. Due to its size compared to the string itself, this is a lot more sound than what comes directly from the string. (cf speakers with/without soundboard).
If you do it in vacuum: no sound, so considerably less damping!
Does this help ?
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