In this discussion, a person seeks advice on how to communicate to a friend of their brother that they are not romantically interested, while minimizing future awkwardness. Suggestions include being honest about feelings, such as stating a lack of romantic interest or mentioning being focused on other priorities like education. Some participants recommend using humor or indirect methods, like claiming interest in someone else, to deflect advances. The conversation takes a serious turn when the original poster describes unsettling behavior from the friend, including watching them sleep, which raises concerns about boundaries. The consensus emphasizes the importance of clear communication and setting firm boundaries, especially given the friend's inappropriate actions. Participants also suggest involving the brother for additional support if necessary, and some express concern for the original poster's safety and comfort. Overall, the thread highlights the challenges of navigating unwanted romantic interest while maintaining social ties.
I was just teasing about the doughnuts and Coke. We'll have a grand feast. It will have to be vegetarian though- unless you want to prepare the dead carcass dishes. Deal?
