jostpuur said:
I am following the popular convention, that the mass is the rest mass here.
Using rest mass is not a popular convention in relativity, at least when it comes to conservation of energy-momentum. Total mass is defined as
Mc^2=\int T^{00}dV
the reason of which being that this quantity is conserved (and I guess you want energy to be conserved).
Anyway we talked about mass
density and not mass itself. But then there's at least one additional distinction: you'd have to tell us whether you mean "rest mass density" or "rest mass rest density". Unless you tell us, we can't answer.
As you can read in the textbooks the energy-momentum tensor of non interacting matter (often called dust) is
T^{\mu\nu} = \rho v^\mu v^\nu
One can also rephrase this in terms of the "rest mass rest density" which I shall write as \rho_0 in the form
T^{\mu\nu} = \rho_0 U^\mu U^\nu
But the former is more useful for our consideration because we see from it that T^{00}=\rho c^2 and consequently
M=\int \rho dV
as we might have expected. So T00 is indeed the
mass density in common parlance. The "rest mass density" or either the "rest mass rest density" is of no immediate physical relevance here because it is not a conserved quantity. Even M is only conserved if there is no interaction.
However it is perfectly legal to try to design one's own theory by considering one of the rest densities (which one you haven't yet explained). But as I assume from your posting you change sign in the "Maxwell tensor" so there's not a chance for the corresponding current to be conserved (remember: current conservation comes from antisymmetry of the field tensor). This is of course good because it shouldn't be conserved, as explained above.
Again, don't complain about us confusing things when you don't precisely tell us what you mean. And remember that there is not enough space here to explain GR to you.