The discussion revolves around the current usage of instant messaging (IM) services and personal preferences regarding them. Many participants have moved away from traditional IM platforms like MSN, AIM, and Yahoo, often citing frustrations with ads, lag, and intrusive messaging. While some still use MSN for its SMS capabilities, others have transitioned to alternatives like Skype for video chatting, primarily for personal connections rather than text-based communication. A common theme is the desire for privacy and control over who can initiate conversations, leading users to prefer invisible statuses or to limit contacts to close friends. The conversation also touches on the decline of IM usage in favor of texting, email, and social media platforms like Facebook, with many expressing a general disinterest in returning to IM services. Overall, the trend indicates a shift towards more direct and less intrusive forms of communication.