vanhees71 said:
I don't think that "collapse" is more than the standard update of the knowledge after the result of a random experiment has been obtained. It's not a physical process. This would contradict the mathematical description within relativistic microcausal (=local) QFT.
The best experimental justification is that there's not a single exeption of QT behavior observed, although QT is the best tested theory ever.
I think I can see where you're coming from: for example, it's hard to recognize interference effects in single-count measurements (such as the lived experience of a typical person), and the observed phenomenon of wave function collapse could be an illusion of sorts (maybe related to the illusion of 'active' as opposed to 'passive' measurement) determined by some unknown initial data. That being said, it's hard to convince any but the most agreeable skeptics that Quantum Mechanics can account for all observable physical phenomena however without addressing a few apparent (though possibly illusory) shortcomings of unitary QM, such as the origins of consciousness, or why it might be that the quantum world distills and presents a few choice morsels of interpretable data and not others of a completely different kind (if not wave function "collapse" per se, then why it is that we perceive what we perceive.) I think to a certain person (possibly Bohr), the existence of a conscious self that is capable of experiencing and observing a moment-by-moment definite universe in real time would
prove that quantum mechanics is incomplete, that speckled or point-cloud interference patterns on various screens or thermal noise in quantum opto-mechanical setups and so on evidence a significant departure from the quantum model; from that perspective, it would also seem to be the
conservative choice to say that quantum mechanics must necessarily be incomplete (rather than the arguably even more conservative stance to
allow also that it
might not be.) Such a person might also have difficulty reconciling the 'super-unitary' view of nature with widespread acceptance of the anthropic principle, or of the many-worlds hypothesis. It's possible that quantum mechanics is sufficient to explain everything, and that observed reality can be modeled as a giant S-matrix (or "S-event") of sorts, but it could also be that observable quantum phenomena are just the tip of a much much larger iceberg which might exhibit ordinary quantum-ness in some cases and in others behave weirdly in a completely different way.
First you need to convince such a person that definitive, time-stable measurements of the sort taken in existing laboratories can actually happen in a unitary quantum mechanical model (a model that doesn't rely tacitly on some external deciding process for when a measurement actually happens or is registered), and
then you can explain that it is scientifically sound to act (with all due caution) on the hypothesis that quantum mechanics is
fundamental until we find experimental evidence to the contrary.