I am trying to get my head around the notion that there is no centre to the universe
It takes some time to begin to get a feel for these things that are waaaaaay beyond our everyday perceptions and experience. Things we can't often 'imagine'. For example, you know that when you see tree in the distance and it looks small, when you walk along and get close it might well be very tall. So you get a 'feel' for such perspectives; you do not find them 'surprising'. An ant would possibly be amazed because the poor ant can even see over the top of some grass.
Is the universe infinite or is it finite and unbounded. Is there one universe or many? What do those statements even mean? They have a mathematical meaning but not ones that are easy to visualize; in fact not even meanings that every scientist agrees upon. In fact no one knows for sure.
Chronos posts:
It's a little more complicated than that...
and makes some observations...what do they MEAN?? Not so easy to really understand.
Try this classic explanation about the universe; give it a read, maybe forget the diagrams and math at first...skip parts that are too complicated...I've probably read parts of this four or five times...some of it is crazy but it is accurate.
edit: try this simplified version first...
http://space.mit.edu/~kcooksey/teaching/AY5/MisconceptionsabouttheBigBang_ScientificAmerican.pdf
more advancd:
http://arxiv.org/PS_cache/astro-ph/pdf/0310/0310808v2.pdf
And keep in mind different observers won't even agree on the age of the universe let alone stuff about the 'center'...
Do you know what a mobius strip is?? Where is "the center' of that strange object? It's easy to visualize one measure of 'center' [vs width] , not so easy others [as length].
See an illustration here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Möbius_strip
How would two ants traveling on such a strip, two different observers, decide on a 'center' ? That's a crude analogy, like the balloon analogy of the universe, but it may give a minor insight into how not only space but spacetime is complicated.
There is not even universal agreement on whether space is expanding or distant galaxies are 'really expanding'. Nor is there universal agreement among observers on the age of the universe. [Chronos used an agreed upon conventional measure of $13.7B years, but that is an arbitrary, but convenient, measure.]
If you are familiar with the balloon analogy, check out this new website from one of our own people here for a discussion of what ithe baloon analogy approximates and what it doesn't:
http://www.phinds.com/balloonanalogy/