vsandel said:
If there is no "now", only 4D spacetime, then would the future not be fixed as well as the past? This would be a predetermined universe just playing out as a movie.
Sure, all events would be fixed in spacetime (though this is not the same as 'determinism' which assumes that complete knowledge of the present is enough to uniquely predict the future). In the 4D view it wouldn't even really be "playing" out, since that would imply some notion of a "moving present" passing through spacetime...instead all of spacetime would just exist like a static geometric structure.
vsandel said:
I am not acquainted with relativity mathematically, but in my way of thinking the relativity of simultaneity does not rule out an absolute "now".
You're right that it doesn't rule it out in a metaphysical sense, but it rules it out as a notion that could have any
physical correlates whatsoever--if relativity is correct there would be absolutely no experiment that could distinguish the "correct" definition of simultaneity from the "false" definitions of other frames, so true simultaneity would be just a sort of phantom, a bit like the idea of entities "outside" the physical universe.
vsandel said:
I look at it as a measurement problem much like the Heisenberg uncertainty principle. The accuracy of simultaneous measurement of the momentum and position of a particle is limited because measuring the momentum disturbs the position and visa verse. That does not imply that the particle does not have momentum and position simultaneously, just that we can't measure it.
Sure, this is a decent analogy, as long as you accept that quantum mechanics means that it is impossible
in principle to ever measure them simultaneously, not just that it's something we can't do at present with existing experimental techniques (of course quantum mechanics could be wrong, but the same is true of relativity). And there are some serious problems with imagining that values for noncommuting variables exist simultaneously, it seems that you'd have to accept the possibility of hidden FTL effects as well--see
this thread.
vsandel said:
Furthermore, general relativity is just a mathematical model of reality, not the reality itself. It correctly predicts some things and is the best current model of reality, but as soon as it makes a wrong prediction it will be "back to the drawing board". To completely dismiss ideas that are not based upon GR seems to me to be to be unwise until there is a lot more evidence that the theory truly predicts reality accurately.
General relativity the physical theory will have to be replaced by a theory of quantum gravity, but the relativity of simultaneity is a consequence of Lorentz-invariance, which is not a specific physical theory but rather a
symmetry in the local laws of physics, like
translational symmetry, which can be true of many possible theories (for example, although quantum field theory was discovered long after special relativity, it is compatible with SR because it is a Lorentz-invariant theory).
This post from sci.physics.relativity argues for why "aether theories" which postulate a single preferred frame should be considered very unlikely, and some of the given reasons would also make good arguments against the idea that some future theory will end up violating Lorentz-symmetry (especially reason #6). The basic question is, if fundamentally the laws of physics don't respect this symmetry, why have all observed phenomena so far respected it? Is it just a gigantic coincidence?