Meet Guys: Girls Looking for Decent Guys!

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The discussion revolves around the appreciation of men and the desire to meet "decent guys," with participants expressing a mix of humor and light-heartedness. There is a playful exploration of personal preferences regarding physical attributes, such as facial hair and style, as well as deeper qualities like ambition and personality. Participants share their thoughts on dating dynamics, suggesting that many women misinterpret certain behaviors in men as confidence or dominance when they may stem from insecurity or other issues. The conversation also touches on the rarity of finding a well-rounded partner who balances strength with gentleness. Overall, the thread combines humor with genuine reflections on dating and attraction, while also considering the complexities of relationships and personal connections.
  • #151
Evo said:
Take that you near naked, vapid, 20 year olds!

<<takes it>>
 
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  • #152
Evo said:
One of the top dating sites has informed me that I have been rated in the top 50% of their most attractive members, and it was not an attractive picture. And I'm old.

Yeah, I need validation. :redface:

Take that you near naked, vapid, 20 year olds!

If it was a picture of you, how was it not an attractive one? I see no issues with the results and neither should you! :smile:
 
  • #153
FlexGunship said:
<<takes it>>

<wonders what Flex is going to do with it :confused:>
 
  • #154
Dembadon said:
If it was a picture of you, how was it not an attractive one? I see no issues with the results and neither should you! :smile:

This is totally transparent - it's a typical case of false modesty. :-p
 
  • #155
radou said:
This is totally transparent - it's a typical case of false modesty. :-p
Of course it is! I said I needed validation. :biggrin:
 
  • #156
Evo said:
One of the top dating sites has informed me that I have been rated in the top 50% of their most attractive members, and it was not an attractive picture.
That's nothing. They rated me in the top 100%.
 
  • #157
nucleargirl said:
lol thanks Graphene :) sounds good to me! your electron and my uh... nuclear properties... we could set off a fission reaction!
I'm sorry I came late to this conversation. There is a lovely song along these lines. I posted it before in a different thread. I heard it on the Dr. Demento show many years ago and never forgot the words. I do not know the name of it or who wrote or performed it.

Just an atom of chlorine, valence minus one.
Swimming through the sea, digging the scene, just having fun.
She's not worried about the shape or size of her outside shell.
It's fun to ionize.
Just an atom of Cl, with an unfilled shell.

Somewhere in that sea lurks handsome Sodium.
With enough electrons on his outside shell plus that extra one.
Somewhere in this deep blue sea there's a positive
for my extra energy. Yes,
somewhere in this foam my negative will find a home.

Then unsuspecting Chlorine felt a magnetic pull.
She looked down and her outside shell was full.
Sodium cried "What a gas, be my bride,
and I'll change your name from Chlorine to Chloride."

Now the sea evaporates to make the clouds for the rain and snow.
Leaving her chemical compounds in the absence of H2O.
But the crystals that wash upon the shore are happy ones.
So, if you never thought before,
think of the love that you eat when you salt your meat.
 
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  • #158
thats nice Jimmy!
it seems to be 'NaCl' by Kate and Anna McGarrigle.

you know, I've had enough of men! and people! I'm turning bitter! I don't care anymore!
the more I see the more I get disappointed! if I could, I would go and live on my own in a cave or somewhere!... meh.
 
  • #159
nucleargirl said:
thats nice Jimmy!
it seems to be 'NaCl' by Kate and Anna McGarrigle.

you know, I've had enough of men! and people! I'm turning bitter! I don't care anymore!
the more I see the more I get disappointed! if I could, I would go and live on my own in a cave or somewhere!... meh.

You're surrounded by people who score high percentages at online dating services and you're still disappointed? :devil: :-p
 
  • #160
nucleargirl said:
thats nice Jimmy!
it seems to be 'NaCl' by Kate and Anna McGarrigle.

you know, I've had enough of men! and people! I'm turning bitter! I don't care anymore!
the more I see the more I get disappointed! if I could, I would go and live on my own in a cave or somewhere!... meh.
You're too young to be jaded! I suspect that you just haven't met the right guy yet.
 
  • #161
radou said:
You're surrounded by people who score high percentages at online dating services and you're still disappointed? :devil: :-p

:) ah that I wouldn't mind! its more like the people that I have to work with that is making me lose my faith in humanity... being surrounded by these people is bad news!
 
  • #162
nucleargirl said:
:) ah that I wouldn't mind! its more like the people that I have to work with that is making me lose my faith in humanity... being surrounded by these people is bad news!
Hang in there ng! Don't give up, we love you!
 
  • #163
awww thanks evo
 
  • #164
... it had been found that fluoridation caused slight damage to a specific part of the brain. This damage had a very particular effect. It made it more difficult for the person affected to defend his freedom. he became more docile towards authority.

http://www.theforbiddenknowledge.com/hardtruth/fluoridation.htm"

Perhaps you can find a way to fluoridate the water supply of the people you work with, and turn them all into your minions. That way they can restore your faith in humanity by proving their usefulness and work would become a much more pleasant place to be.
 
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  • #165
hm... I'm pretty sure the water I drink is fluoridated... maybe that's why I'm having trouble defending my rights... perhaps that's why lots of people drink bottled water... maybe I should join them and see if my willpower improves!
 
  • #166
Drink beer. Its much more fun than water.
 
  • #167
Evo said:
Hang in there ng! Don't give up, we love you!

Yes!

Oh, does hanging on there work out? I've been hanging for some time now, and don't see very interesting signals yet.
 
  • #168
The lower your standards go, the more signals you are likely to get. Which would you prefer :smile:
 
  • #169
Sounds like an optimization problem :/
 
  • #170
No, Its an optimization challenge!
 
  • #171
Does anyone have an algorithm for it?
 
  • #172
Sourabh N said:
Sounds like an optimization problem :/

Haha nice

Anyway you shouldn't rely on others to make you feel better or anything like that
 
  • #173
Does anyone have an algorithm for it?

The algorithm takes into account the weighting of various desired characteristics, location, age, hobbies, weather, chocolate content and employment and returns 1/0.

Perhaps you should try a thought experiment instead?
 
  • #174
PhysDrew said:
Haha nice

Anyway you shouldn't rely on others to make you feel better or anything like that

Why not? I don't want to be bothered with making myself happy all the time.
 
  • #175
Zryn said:
The algorithm takes into account the weighting of various desired characteristics, location, age, hobbies, weather, chocolate content and employment and returns 1/0.

Perhaps you should try a thought experiment instead?

Like imagine a girl? O.o
 
  • #177
maybe you could redefine "hot"?
 
  • #178
So, be a hot woman.
 
  • #179
Zryn said:
The algorithm takes into account the weighting of various desired characteristics, location, age, hobbies, weather, chocolate content and employment and returns 1/0.

[...]

Or it returns \sqrt{-1}.
 
  • #180
Ok girls. Yu like to play cat making the mouse her spent of time.Nuclear girl that poem you sai about guys I know you do not ean it.
!we are for you no more than , a money machine, a sex machine, an imge infront of your relatives that you are ucceed in your life, and a machine to be blame when things go wring.
And , yu can bring any man you want to. If a girl find herself unable to do so, then she must have had done "crimes" to boys .Change of area will make her restart agian.
Ok, girls......ok cuts
 
  • #181
physiqueper4 said:
Ok girls. Yu like to play cat making the mouse her spent of time.Nuclear girl that poem you sai about guys I know you do not ean it.
!we are for you no more than , a money machine, a sex machine, an imge infront of your relatives that you are ucceed in your life, and a machine to be blame when things go wring.
And , yu can bring any man you want to. If a girl find herself unable to do so, then she must have had done "crimes" to boys .Change of area will make her restart agian.
Ok, girls......ok cuts

Someone decipher that.
 
  • #182
Sourabh N said:
Someone decipher that.

Actually, it's so bad it violates PF guidelines :biggrin:

In the interest of conveying ideas as clearly as possible, posts are required to show reasonable attention to written English communication standards. This includes the use of proper grammatical structure, punctuation, capitalization, and spelling. SMS messaging shorthand, such as using "u" for "you", is not acceptable.
 
  • #183
I'm going to go out on a limb and make the assumption that was supposed to be written in the English language.
 
  • #184
All I have to say is http://bit.ly/gcTd7j

PS : Seriously, I don't mean to diss people with issues in English (I am/was one), but his opinions aren't worth the respect.
 
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  • #185
Sourabh N said:
... his opinions aren't worth the respect.

Yes. Never mind the English, he/she does seem to have fallen out of the relationship tree and hit every branch on the way down.
 
  • #186
DaveC426913 said:
Yes. Never mind the English, he/she does seem to have fallen out of the relationship tree and hit every branch on the way down.

Cool metaphor.
 
  • #187
Ok girls. Yu like to play cat making the mouse her spent of time.Nuclear girl that poem you sai about guys I know you do not ean it.
!we are for you no more than , a money machine, a sex machine, an imge infront of your relatives that you are ucceed in your life, and a machine to be blame when things go wring.
And , yu can bring any man you want to. If a girl find herself unable to do so, then she must have had done "crimes" to boys .Change of area will make her restart agian.
Ok, girls......ok cuts

Attempt at interpreting:

Hold on a second girls, (for comparison with the bad things guys do) you like to spend your time playing cat and mouse (http://dictionary.infoplease.com/cat-and-mouse").

The poem you (Nucleargirl) said about guys, I know you don't really mean that.

We (guys) are nothing more to you than money, sex, an image for your relatives to convince them that you are successful in life (measured by having someone love you) and someone to blame when things go wrong.

A girl can get any man she wants to, and if she is unable to do so, she must be a ***** (or have some similar character flaw and/or past history).

Moving to a different area will allow her to restart anew (but she will still be the same person).

I think the message being sent was fairly straightforward, and this position is not unique, men are all bastards and women are all bitches. Congratulations to the people who haven't thought along this line at some point in their life!

Everyone wants to punch above their weight, but realistically, see what aabottom said earlier:

So, be a hot woman.

I like the way people derided the poster for not being capable in English too, that was super classy, good work!
 
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  • #188
...playing cat and mouse ('hard to get' metaphor)...
Actually, this is incorrect. (You are probably interpreting it correctly, but the poster is using the wrong metaphor).

If women like to play cat and mouse, then that means they're the cat (no mouse choosesto play cat-and-mouse - they're the victim). But a woman doesn't chase down and catch a man and torture him while he tries to get away...
 
  • #189
It does indeed not seem logical that a mouse would indulge a cat in order to play this game, however from the link provided:

3. play cat and mouse, to engage in a gamelike relationship in which evasion and pursuit are used: They played cat and mouse for a while before she consented to go out with him.

Read more: cat and mouse: meaning and definitions — Infoplease.com http://dictionary.infoplease.com/cat-and-mouse#ixzz1JGuZbhsA
 
  • #190
physiqueper4 said:
Ok girls. Yu like to play cat making the mouse her spent of time.Nuclear girl that poem you sai about guys I know you do not ean it.
!we are for you no more than , a money machine, a sex machine, an imge infront of your relatives that you are ucceed in your life, and a machine to be blame when things go wring.
And , yu can bring any man you want to. If a girl find herself unable to do so, then she must have had done "crimes" to boys .Change of area will make her restart agian.
Ok, girls......ok cuts

This is the worst proposal for a Quantum Gravity theory I've ever seen!
 
  • #191
what poem?? I don't remember writing any poems here? oh you mean the first post... yeah I knew in foresight that I would regret that one day! should have listened to my good judgement :p
 
  • #192
nucleargirl said:
what poem?? I don't remember writing any poems here? oh you mean the first post... yeah I knew in foresight that I would regret that one day! should have listened to my good judgement :p

That was a poem??
 
  • #194
DaveC426913 said:
That was a poem??

Its either a work immense artistic genius which only that one guy could appreciate... or its more like something I'd write in one of my not-so-lucid moments...
 
  • #195
jtbell said:
You're still looking for a hot guy? You need to look in the right place!

you're so right! I should start practicing my sauna-sitting skills! I love Scandinavian guys!
 
  • #196
nucleargirl said:
you're so right! I should start practicing my sauna-sitting skills! I love Scandinavian guys!
:smile:

Edit: I looked at the pic after >_< uggh
 
  • #197
Maybe this can help?
http://www.farnorthsaunas.com/product/abaton-porta-chamber
 
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  • #198
Threads like this keep me eternally entertained. Keep it up.
 
  • #199
Dr Lots-o'watts said:
Maybe this can help?
http://www.farnorthsaunas.com/product/abaton-porta-chamber

wow! that looks so comfy! would make training fun!
 
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  • #200
May I suggest that if you seriously wish to draw someone of any specific education, that you demonstrate awareness and respect for education. My girlfriend is admittedly a lot less educated than myself with her high school degree, and I can't deny that I regularly bug her to get a college degree - but she displayed a massive field of working knowledge in her own right and she was generally eager to learn.
 
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