Moving: Pros & Cons of My Dream Place

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The discussion centers around a person facing the difficult decision to move from a beloved one-bedroom apartment to accommodate their daughter, who wants to move in to save on commuting costs. The current living situation is cherished for its natural surroundings, including a ravine and wildlife, which will be lost in the move. Two potential two-bedroom apartments are being considered, each with distinct pros and cons, including concerns about safety and parking. The financial implications of the move are significant, as the new rent will increase expenses, despite the daughter’s intention to help with costs and household chores. There is skepticism about the daughter's commitment to contributing and the long-term viability of the living arrangement, especially with her boyfriend involved. The conversation also touches on broader themes of financial responsibility and the impact of the current economic climate on family dynamics. Ultimately, the need for a larger space is pressing, but the emotional attachment to the current home complicates the decision.
  • #271


Evo said:
I have officially been approved for the move. :cry: It's set for the end of Sept. :cry:

:cry:
I'm trying to understand here. Why the tears? Is it just a female thing? :biggrin:

My confusions is due to your first post in this thread while you were still living in your old apartment.
Evo said:
I don't want to, I love my place. It's my dream place.
 
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  • #272


dlgoff said:
I'm trying to understand here. Why the tears? Is it just a female thing? :biggrin:

My confusions is due to your first post in this thread while you were still living in your old apartment.
I know, now I am spoiled by the bigger place. :cry:
 
  • #273


Evo said:
I know, now I am spoiled by the bigger place. :cry:
How much *space* do you need? Your dog is no bigger than a typical dust-bunny! Unless you have grown a lot in the last year or so, you don't need *space* either.
 
  • #274


turbo said:
How much *space* do you need? Your dog is no bigger than a typical dust-bunny! Unless you have grown a lot in the last year or so, you don't need *space* either.
I never had enough storage space at the old apartment, and I couldn't use the living room because of the bizarre lack of wall space, you couldn't put a couch in a non-wall space because then you'd be trapped, and the cable for tv was in the corner between the fireplace and a window, so that made no sense. I basically lived in the bedroom. I know once I get back there, I'll be ok, but I'm going to miss the layout and space I have now.
 
  • #275


Evo said:
I never had enough storage space at the old apartment, and I couldn't use the living room because of the bizarre lack of wall space, you couldn't put a couch in a non-wall space because then you'd be trapped, and the cable for tv was in the corner between the fireplace and a window, so that made no sense. I basically lived in the bedroom. I know once I get back there, I'll be ok, but I'm going to miss the layout and space I have now.
I definitely understand not having enough space. It's been a problem for me ever since I bought this place over 30 years ago. The way I look at it though is I don't have to worry about being a hoarder. Keep that in mind. I wouldn't want to see you on a television program someday. :wink:
 
  • #276


And it's missing a computer with PF on...
 
  • #277


micromass said:
And it's missing a computer with PF on...
That's in the super-secret room.
 
  • #278


Astronuc said:
That looks very nice, very warm, and very comfy.

However, it's missing stacks of math, physics, engineering and history books. :frown:


Nice dolly. :smile:
Thanks. I don't even know where all of my books are. Yeah, the dolly will come in handy with the move.
 
  • #279


Astronuc said:
Nice dolly. :smile:

I have the exact same one at work! :approve:
 
  • #280


Math Is Hard said:
I have the exact same one at work! :approve:
We can have a race!
 
  • #281


Evo said:
We can have a race!
My money is on MIH. Evo will fall and injure herself before getting out of the gate.
 
  • #282


Evo said:
We can have a race!

A fabulous idea! Who or what will we be carting?
 
  • #283


Math Is Hard said:
A fabulous idea! Who or what will we be carting?
Chances are, you'd be carting Evo to the ER to get her patched up. Be sure to bring straps with ratchets to secure her to the dolly.
 
  • #284


Math Is Hard said:
A fabulous idea! Who or what will we be carting?
How about Astro & zooby?

turbo said:
Chances are, you'd be carting Evo to the ER to get her patched up. Be sure to bring straps with ratchets to secure her to the dolly.
Good idea!
 
  • #285


Evo said:
How about Astro & zooby?

Good idea!
:bugeye: :rolleyes:
 
  • #286


Better call "dibs" on MIH, Astro. It will improve your chances of surviving the race.
 
  • #287


turbo said:
Better call "dibs" on MIH, Astro. It will improve your chances of surviving the race.

Good idea. Zoobies have pretty robust bone structures; he'll be fine.
 
  • #288


I've started moving. :frown:
 
  • #289


Evo said:
I've started moving. :frown:
Hopefully, the task will be complete before winter sets in. Chin up.
 
  • #290


Evo said:
I've started moving. :frown:
It should go easier now that you've gotten rid of your 8 legged houseguest. :wink:
Good luck!
 
  • #291


You should dress like football players do, that will reduce risk of injuries.
 
  • #292


I can barely move. Something is wrong with my left heel.
 
  • #293


i'd look for a knot in the calf or the muscles of the side and bottom of the foot.
 
  • #294


Evo said:
I can barely move. Something is wrong with my left heel.
I have plantar fascitis in my right foot. It feels like a stabbing pain in the heel when it's bad. I have some New Balance toning shoes with good internal support and a "rocker" sole that reduces heel-strike, and I wear those whenever I take Duke out for a long walk. They have helped a lot, and even if I have to spend a lot of time on my feet I don't get the pain that I used to. PF is a pain :devil: and it can crop up in people who have suddenly elevated their level of activity or recently gained weight. I'm pretty sure it is more prevalent in men, but it could be a possibility for you.

Good luck! I wish that I lived in driving distance and could help with the move.
 
  • #295


Evo said:
I've started moving. :frown:

You'll be settled in before you know it :smile:
 
  • #296


micromass said:
You'll be settled in before you know it :smile:
And how much stuff will be hopelessly lost after the move? My wife and I lived in Spartan accommodations when we were in the first few years of our marriage, and we traveled as light as possible when we moved so I could chase construction jobs. Still, somehow, a lovely forged high-carbon steel 6" Thiers-Issard chef's knife came up missing at some point. That was my favorite kitchen knife of all time, and I had a hard time pulling $25 out of my pocket in the mid-70's to pay for that rascal, but it was well worth it. We were saving as much out of each of our checks as we could every week so that some day we would have enough money to make a down payment on our own place, but I couldn't resist that knife. It was on sale in a newly-opened cooking store for about 1/3 off and I had to have it. I should buy a replacement, but we cut and chop so many acidic vegetables these days that I opted for a SS model. Still, that carbon-steel forged blade would "sing" when you rubbed your thumb across the edge and it held an edge 'way better than SS.

There are papers that still haven't surfaced after our move here 6 years ago - some that can't be replicated. There are also small specialty tools, etc that have never emerged from all the packing boxes.
 
  • #297


Evo said:
I can barely move. Something is wrong with my left heel.

turbo said:
I have plantar fascitis in my right foot. It feels like a stabbing pain in the heel when it's bad. I have some New Balance toning shoes with good internal support and a "rocker" sole that reduces heel-strike, and I wear those whenever I take Duke out for a long walk. They have helped a lot, and even if I have to spend a lot of time on my feet I don't get the pain that I used to. PF is a pain :devil: and it can crop up in people who have suddenly elevated their level of activity or recently gained weight. I'm pretty sure it is more prevalent in men, but it could be a possibility for you.

Good luck! I wish that I lived in driving distance and could help with the move.
Evo, FYI Turbo,

Be careful for God's sake moving... Rhody sends moving angels o:) Evo's and MIH's o:) way, I had PF as well both heels one after the other 5 years apart. Podiatrist, numbed inside heel with liquid nitrogen, then, a liberal shot of cortisone (felt nothing the heel was fooled by the cold from the liquid nitrogen) and this took care of it, sore for about three days, then pain free. I am careful not to stress ankles without warm up.

I hope you have success with the ghost seeds. Some peppers are heading your way tomorrow. It would be cool to have a trimmed ghost monster of your very own to brag about wouldn't it ?

Rhody... o:)
 
  • #298


turbo said:
I have plantar fascitis in my right foot. It feels like a stabbing pain in the heel when it's bad. I have some New Balance toning shoes with good internal support and a "rocker" sole that reduces heel-strike, and I wear those whenever I take Duke out for a long walk. They have helped a lot, and even if I have to spend a lot of time on my feet I don't get the pain that I used to. PF is a pain :devil: and it can crop up in people who have suddenly elevated their level of activity or recently gained weight. I'm pretty sure it is more prevalent in men, but it could be a possibility for you.

It's more than a possibility. It's a reality. And yes, it came with weight gain. It doesn't necessarily go away with weight gain, however.

One of my docs suggested I follow a diet for those with gout, and I found instant relief, but only about 40%. "The rest," he said, "comes from loosing the weight and getting back into shape."

I didn't loose the weight, but when I began cycling, my PF disappeared. Don't know if it's related or not. Some folks might find cracking their own walnuts eases the symptoms. Who knows?

What I did makes sense to me. As it's basic fitness, not some pie in the sky cure, you might try it. Can it hurt? Don't think so.

Good luck! I wish that I lived in driving distance and could help with the move.[/QUOTE]
 
  • #299


Evo said:
I can barely move. Something is wrong with my left heel.

In different circumstances I would offer a kiss to sooth your pain, but with my marital status and being 5000 miles away I can only comfort you by saying - poor Evo :frown:
 
  • #300


I massaged my heel last night pretty well, hoping that the pain would end the pain and I would wake up painless.

Nope.

Good lord. I have to dismantle my computer & tv set up, there are 50 kagillion cords.
 

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