Moving: Pros & Cons of My Dream Place

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The discussion centers around a person facing the difficult decision to move from a beloved one-bedroom apartment to accommodate their daughter, who wants to move in to save on commuting costs. The current living situation is cherished for its natural surroundings, including a ravine and wildlife, which will be lost in the move. Two potential two-bedroom apartments are being considered, each with distinct pros and cons, including concerns about safety and parking. The financial implications of the move are significant, as the new rent will increase expenses, despite the daughter’s intention to help with costs and household chores. There is skepticism about the daughter's commitment to contributing and the long-term viability of the living arrangement, especially with her boyfriend involved. The conversation also touches on broader themes of financial responsibility and the impact of the current economic climate on family dynamics. Ultimately, the need for a larger space is pressing, but the emotional attachment to the current home complicates the decision.
  • #211


Evo said:
My last stay ... was so bad, it made my BP skyrocket...

Uhmmm, given the readings you've been reporting, exactly where could it possibly skyrocket to? :eek:

I need a good report from you Evo so that my BP can go back down LOL.
 
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  • #212


rolerbe said:
Uhmmm, given the readings you've been reporting, exactly where could it possibly skyrocket to? :eek:

Well, my great grandmother died with a BP of 300/xxx due to (SPOILER!) acute cerebral hemorrhage.
 
  • #213


Jimmy Snyder said:
I just had a c___scopy. You know, where they take a camera (presumably with a flash) and stick it where the sun don't shine. A few quick snaps and they're done. They found a polyp, removed it, and sent it off to the FBI for investigation. I hope they waterboard the sucker. The doctor says that these are usually benign, but if it turns out otherwise then he just cured me of cancer. Apparently removing it solves the problem. I'll find out soon which it was. Anyway the clinic was a model of efficiency. They put something in my IV that made my eyelids very heavy. Just as I made my mind up to fight it, I was waking up. From the time I entered the door to when I exited was no more than two hours. Not enough time for that crazy nurse to cause any trouble.
Yes, if they get it in time, it is one of the cancers that is preventable. Hope the results turn out ok.
 
  • #214


evo, have you talked to a doc yet about anti-anxiety meds ?
 
  • #215


Proton Soup said:
evo, have you talked to a doc yet about anti-anxiety meds ?
I've already got some. :biggrin:

One of the reasons my BP is elevated is the pain I'm in, perhaps one too many falls down flights of stairs?
 
  • #216


Evo said:
One of the reasons my BP is elevated is the pain I'm in, perhaps one too many falls down flights of stairs?

Maybe you should cut back on falling.
 
  • #217


Evo said:
I've already got some. :biggrin:

One of the reasons my BP is elevated is the pain I'm in, perhaps one too many falls down flights of stairs?

ah, good to hear.

pain is a tough one. some types, like say from inflammation, can be alleviated with high dose fish oil to cut off prostaglandins at the pass, so to speak. probably not so much for stairalgia, tho.
 
  • #218


Math Is Hard said:
Maybe you should cut back on falling.
I recommend she cut that out altogether. :biggrin:
 
  • #219


Astronuc said:
I recommend she cut that out altogether.

Cold turkey? That's tough love.
 
  • #220


As promised, the finished shelves.

shelves.jpg
 
  • #221


Now that's more like it. Nice job!

I think we have the same measuring bowl.
 
  • #222


Evo said:
As promised, the finished shelves.

shelves.jpg
I've seen those shelves and yea, they are heavy. Since it's setting on carpet, are you going to put some coasters under the legs to keep them from cutting through?

I hope you have been to the doctors appointment and you can get a handle on the BP now.
 
  • #223


dlgoff said:
I've seen those shelves and yea, they are heavy. Since it's setting on carpet, are you going to put some coasters under the legs to keep them from cutting through?

I hope you have been to the doctors appointment and you can get a handle on the BP now.
I wanted to put a heavy rubber down mat to cover the entire carpeted area in the closet. But coasters will be going down. The surrounding floor is tile, no idea why the closet is carpeted. :confused:

I went to the Dr and have my BP meds.
 
  • #224


Evo said:
I went to the Dr and have my BP meds.
Yea. :smile: I wish you luck with the meds. I've been very worried like everyone else here.
 
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The results were just some benign lymphoid tissue, not actually a polyp.
 
  • #226


Evo said:
I wanted to put a heavy rubber down mat to cover the entire carpeted area in the closet. But coasters will be going down. The surrounding floor is tile, no idea why the closet is carpeted. :confused:
Tiled floor and carpeted closet? :rolleyes:

I went to the Dr and have my BP meds.
And?
 
  • #227


Jimmy Snyder said:
The results were just some benign lymphoid tissue, not actually a polyp.
Congrats and best wishes for continued good health!
 
  • #228


Jimmy Snyder said:
The results were just some benign lymphoid tissue, not actually a polyp.
Very good!
 
  • #229


Jimmy Snyder said:
The results were just some benign lymphoid tissue, not actually a polyp.

Yay!
 
  • #230


Glad to hear everyone is doing better, let's all try and remain accident/illness free for a long time.
 
  • #231


It's been almost three months and finally, today, I can see the floor and the couches. Now we need to hang curtains and pictures. And get a coffee table.

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  • #232


Evo said:
It's been almost three months and finally, today, I can see the floor and the couches. Now we need to hang curtains and pictures. And get a coffee table.

004xq.jpg
That sofa is screaming take a nap on me.
 
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  • #233


Jimmy Snyder said:
That sofa is screaming take a nap on me.
Oh yeah, both of those are soooo comfortable, especially the one along the wall. No one stays awake on that one.
 
  • #234


Very nice Evo.

I could see a zoobyshoe being on your wall.
 
  • #235


dlgoff said:
Very nice Evo.

I could see a zoobyshoe being on your wall.

I hope you meant a "Zoobyshoe painting". Otherwise, it's a little scary.
 
  • #236


Math Is Hard said:
... Otherwise, it's a little scary.
You'd have to ask Evo about that.
 
  • #237


dlgoff said:
Very nice Evo.

I could see a zoobyshoe being on your wall.
ooh, I could see a zooby over my couch too! :biggrin:
 
  • #238


Oh that's great, looks so comfy and cozy!
 
  • #239


It does look warm and cozy.
Evo said:
It's been almost three months and finally, today, I can see the floor and the couches. Now we need to hang curtains and pictures. And get a coffee table.

004xq.jpg
What is our lamp doing in the corner of your living room?!

It needs several piles and shelves of textbooks in mathematics, physics, materials, engineering, and history. :biggrin:
 
  • #240


None of the furniture in the house is mine, mine is either gone or in storage. The lamp was given to Evo child and I love it. Evo Child goes for making comfort nests. She is converting my bedroom into a nest. My bed is piled so high with pillows and stuffed comforters, the fruit bat needs a step stool to get on the bed now.

The bed she gave me is like a cloud. When I go to bed at night, I sink in. Reminds me of being at my grandmother's place up in the Alps. She'd come at night and tell me and my sister to get into whichever position we wanted for the rest of the night and then dump a 500 pound down comforter on us. You could not move once that thing was on you, even though my sister and I would try together to raise it, so we could turn over under it, and I was 18 at the time. Her place was a stone hunting lodge that belonged to one of the early Louis kings of France and there was no heat up where our room was.
 
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