I'm not quite clear on your reasoning here. Your first paragraph seems persuasive, but your second paragraph muddies the waters. It's not obvious to me that there should be values of ##\beta## and ##\gamma## that correspond to the Newtonian limit. PPN assumes a nondegenerate metric, whereas Newtonian gravity has a degenerate metric. As far as I know (basically just from reading the review article by Will), the standard way of recovering the Newtonian limit from PPN is not by picking values of ##\beta## and ##\gamma## but rather by taking the limit of small velocities and weak fields.
I think it's possible to show explicitly that there are no values of ##\beta## and ##\gamma## that define the Newtonian theory. Perihelion advance is a non-Newtonian effect that is proportional to ##2+2\gamma-\beta##, while the Shapiro time delay (or the part of it that Will describes as "non-Newtonian") is proportional to ##1+\gamma##. The Nordtvedt effect is proportional to ##4\beta-\gamma-3## (assuming zero values for ##\xi##, alphas, and zetas). Setting all three of these to zero gives no solutions for the two parameters.