IMO atyy's earlier statement ("...GR in full form does not have particles traveling on geodesics...") was either incorrect or not expressed well. But anyway, thanks, atyy, for the pointer to the Anderson paper, which I thought was very interesting. Even if we sometimes disagree, I think your posts are always interesting and informative.
I don't think anyone, including Anderson, questions the idea that in the limit of low mass, test particles in GR follow geodesics. Anderson is just arguing that the metrical aspect of GR is not fundamental.
The EIH equations are a series approximation to GR in which a system of gravitationally interacting particles is treated as interacting via instantaneous action at a distance, with a velocity-dependent interaction. The lowest order terms are the same as Newton's laws. I don't think it's really correct to say that the motion of test particles along geodesics has to come from the EIH equations.
With Anderson's arguments in mind, it's actually kind of interesting to ask why the geodesics in GR have to be the world-lines of test particles. I think the basic answer is that in the limit of low-mass test particles, GR can in some sense be treated in a linear approximation, so that you can't get any funky effects like the back-reaction of a particle's own gravitational waves on the particle itself. In this approximation, there is simply nothing else in the structure of spacetime that *could* serve as the world-lines of particles, so we kind of have to interpret the geodesics that way. If a test particle did deviate from a geodesic, then we would have a strange situation. We could then go into a local Minkowski frame in which the particle was initially at rest. The particle would accelerate off in some random direction. What would physically determine this direction? If the particle had a lot of mass, then we could imagine that the direction was determined by the back-reaction of the particle's gravitational interaction from its own past motion. But since we're considering the limit of low mass, this can't be the case, and the particle's acceleration violates Lorentz invariance.