El Hombre Invisible said:
Hi Pete. First off, if the system is closed then the relativistic mass of the radiation is part of that system and so would be counted towards the relativistic mass of the system as a whole, so it should not be neglected.
I neglected if for simplicity assuming that it is neglegible compared to the kinetic and potential energy. Its simple to add it in but it was easier to speak of. Not to mention it seemed what you were doing since you also never mentioned the radiation in your example and it was your example I was addressing.
In my example, I specified two opposite charges - let's say a proton and an electron. As the electron moves away from the proton, the strength of the field, or the intensity of the photons interacting with each, should increase and the kinetic energy of the moving charge will decrease. This will lead to a decrease in the relativistic mass of the electron compensated for by the increase in the energy of the field, no?
As the distance between the charges increases to infinity the total potential energy of the system increases towards zero and the kinetic energy decreases toward zero. The total energy of the system remains constant. Therefore the total mass of the system remains constant. It'll be easier for you to see all this by the principle of the conservation of energy. Since E = mc^2 then since E = constant then so does m. However when you actually calculate this it is the potential energy which comes into the energy calculation.
If this equal potential energy were stored within the electron itself, ...
No. That is not true. The mass is in the system itself and is not "stored" in one of the particles.
It would also appear to defy the laws of conservation of energy, as if the relativistic mass of both the proton and the electron remained constant during separation, and the intensity of the photons in between increased, where does this increase of energy come from?
You've added in a new complication when you started to take into account the radiation. This is a very tricky question and I believe that the answer is related to the self force acting on each charge so you no longer have just the Coulomb force acting (and the associated potential energy). I'm only moderately familiar with the physics so I'll be quite on this point for now (stuff this complicated I forget a week after I figure it out/learn it!

). I believe I can dig that up somewhere though. If this is related to the problem called "mass renormalization" then that is really really really tricky and requires some really advanced stuff to give an answer to. That seems to go far beyond what you're looking for since you don't care about that - you care about potential energy and its relationship to mass. Recall Einstein's first derivation - A body can absorb radiation and when it does the mass increases. What happens inside the body is the electromagnetic energy is changed to internal potential energy. This then is the energy associated with the increase in mass.
If you consider two like charges at rest - find the mass - then move the charges closer together and then let them be at rest once again then the mass of that system increases. The mechanism which causes the increase in mass can seen by weighing the system. Each charge exerts a force on the other charge and the force has a negative component, i.e. in the direction of the g-field. This added force gives an added weight.
Here's a tricky one for you - Consider a point charge. What is the mass? You'll have to address the mass of the field and the intrinsic mass of the particle itself. Note that the mass of the field is infinite.
If you're truly interested in find and answer to your questions then try to imagine an experiment which will measure the mass you're speaking of.
Pete
Note; Speaking about the field itself as if it had a mass is very tricky and will mess you up big time. The mass associated with an EM field of a chared particle will not transform in the same way as the mass of a particle.